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how would you game a woman who had more diplomas, more prestige, more career accomplishments? not smarter, just more career dedicated than you...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
suppose you were in this situation
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- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I would focus on being an intriguing guy. Don't believe you have nothing to offer just because she has achieved more worldly success. Have confidence in your ability to make her laugh and make her think. If she is materially successful, she might be attracted to others forms of success as well, and that's where you come in.
The Simple Man
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I give a sh!t what she has achieved.
Mike32ct
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Gotta play the looks/body angle if you got it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
HalfPUAHalfAFC
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Treat her like no other guy has.
Never mention her degrees or accomplishments except in a humorous, teasing, and sort of condescending way.
Treat her like a dumb kid sister. Tease her, bust on her, make her giggle. Never take her seriously. All your time with her should be fun.
See, she's used to men supplicating to her. She's used to guys thinking her education and accomplishments are things she wants to have as attraction triggers. So guys kiss her azz.
Don't be that guy.
Make her feel like she's being chased on the playground again. Make her feel tingly like a schoolgirl. Her panties will drop. Promise
Never mention her degrees or accomplishments except in a humorous, teasing, and sort of condescending way.
Treat her like a dumb kid sister. Tease her, bust on her, make her giggle. Never take her seriously. All your time with her should be fun.
See, she's used to men supplicating to her. She's used to guys thinking her education and accomplishments are things she wants to have as attraction triggers. So guys kiss her azz.
Don't be that guy.
Make her feel like she's being chased on the playground again. Make her feel tingly like a schoolgirl. Her panties will drop. Promise
Tictac
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Treat her like a woman.
She will find that different and refreshing.
She will find that different and refreshing.
Caravaggio
Don Juan
Don't give a $hit. If you're a man working on your hustle, that's enough they'll cover any monetary issues and defend attributed qualities to their friends/family if you satisfy their needs
Don't put her out of your league because she has a va-jay-jay and a free pass in life. Be a man and she'll love you anyways
Don't put her out of your league because she has a va-jay-jay and a free pass in life. Be a man and she'll love you anyways
Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
This! Spot on!Tictac said:
+1 Rep!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
She still needs the D at the end of the day
if not you she is getting D from some on else
so hit on her normallu, if you get positive reply, you won or else you are loosing nothing
if not you she is getting D from some on else
so hit on her normallu, if you get positive reply, you won or else you are loosing nothing
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This made me smile...lolMaximummax said:
the_stig
Senior Don Juan
In addition to what's said above.. Women love men with ambition. Set goals for yourself and achieve them. Continue to work and improve yourself on all aspects of live. Further your education. Work on your fitness. Save money. Invest your money. Open a 401k. Whatever it takes.
If she sees you evolving and bettering yourself as a man, she'll be much less likely to see you as a "lesser", and if you stick to the gig, you'll be better off yourself and in the eyes of other Women.
If she sees you evolving and bettering yourself as a man, she'll be much less likely to see you as a "lesser", and if you stick to the gig, you'll be better off yourself and in the eyes of other Women.