"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Supermarket Pick ups

Belmar2009

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I never understood why the "supermarket" is always listed as good place to meet women.

I mean, yeah, there are attractive women there, but it is very, very awkward to try and pick up a woman in a supermarket especially when there are no
IOI's.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AlmostThere!

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There's always an exception, but I too wouldn't put supermarkets at the top of my list.
 

Game_going_good

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I would say the streets are better than the supermarkets.

Now, if it was malls, thats different.
 

Belmar2009

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Game_going_good said:
I would say the streets are better than the supermarkets.

Now, if it was malls, thats different.

Exactly!

What are you supposed to say?

"So, grocery shopping heh?"

or

Hey, nice cucumber.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You better have a lot to offer if you're gonna meet a girl in a supermarket. A shopping mall is much better.
 

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Nice melons...

Juvenile kidding aside, if you are attractive, she will be attracted. You could be in an igloo, a grocery store, whatever.
 

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you're putting alot of emphasis on the situation. just use the same principles...

DJ: that shampoo probably isn't going to work. YOU will probably need something more potent like this...

DJ: Hey that's a cute shirt are you shopping for your mom?

DJ: Hey that's a great CD are you shopping for your grandma?

DJ: You know they have that in low calorie too?
 

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Only awkward cause of your thoughts behind it...

If you were giving women the opportunity to meet you, would it then be weird???

Could that mean you would be able to just walk up and say "agh not carrots again" or "So what are we cooking for dinner today."

Thing is any moment regardless how you go in is her chance to show you she is the woman for you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ALPHAROMEO

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say "cheese"

:moon: how do you know this cheese is mature ?

I M HAVING MY BOSS DINNER which cheeses woud you serve ?

CAN U MELT or TOAST THIS CHEESE ?

i can t quite unerstand you are you from the country? ( neg 1 )


SEEN LOADS OF FATSOES AROUND HERE EAT TOO MUCH CHEESE ?

DO U HAVE CHEESE AFTER OR BEFORE DESSERT

THre is a strong smell of garlic around here? CAN T BE YOU PROBABLY ONE OF THOSE CHEESES ( neg 2 )


I don t believe in showing your ****y side rite off like some guy here who wrote " what are WE cooking FOR dinner

Women don t like players
 

ALPHAROMEO

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say " cheese "

i see a HB at the supermarket
before approaching her , i imagine 4 Qs i will ask her in 30 SECONDS

IT S a fun exercise to do i practise everyday at home in the supermarket itself TRY IT

IMAGINE YOU ARE AT THE CHEESE COUNTER
Give yourself 30 seconds to work out 4 Qs
do it everyday
i ll gaurantee you ll never be at a loss for words
:kick: :kick:
 

zekko

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I never understood why the "supermarket" is always listed as good place to meet women.
Hey, it worked for the Fonz.

i see a HB at the supermarket before approaching her , i imagine 4 Qs i will ask her in 30 SECONDS
You should approach her with a town map and ask her directions to the produce section.
:)
 
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