“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Supermarket Pick ups

Belmar2009

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I never understood why the "supermarket" is always listed as good place to meet women.

I mean, yeah, there are attractive women there, but it is very, very awkward to try and pick up a woman in a supermarket especially when there are no
IOI's.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AlmostThere!

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There's always an exception, but I too wouldn't put supermarkets at the top of my list.
 

Game_going_good

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I would say the streets are better than the supermarkets.

Now, if it was malls, thats different.
 

Belmar2009

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Game_going_good said:
I would say the streets are better than the supermarkets.

Now, if it was malls, thats different.

Exactly!

What are you supposed to say?

"So, grocery shopping heh?"

or

Hey, nice cucumber.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You better have a lot to offer if you're gonna meet a girl in a supermarket. A shopping mall is much better.
 

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Nice melons...

Juvenile kidding aside, if you are attractive, she will be attracted. You could be in an igloo, a grocery store, whatever.
 

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you're putting alot of emphasis on the situation. just use the same principles...

DJ: that shampoo probably isn't going to work. YOU will probably need something more potent like this...

DJ: Hey that's a cute shirt are you shopping for your mom?

DJ: Hey that's a great CD are you shopping for your grandma?

DJ: You know they have that in low calorie too?
 

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Only awkward cause of your thoughts behind it...

If you were giving women the opportunity to meet you, would it then be weird???

Could that mean you would be able to just walk up and say "agh not carrots again" or "So what are we cooking for dinner today."

Thing is any moment regardless how you go in is her chance to show you she is the woman for you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ALPHAROMEO

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say "cheese"

:moon: how do you know this cheese is mature ?

I M HAVING MY BOSS DINNER which cheeses woud you serve ?

CAN U MELT or TOAST THIS CHEESE ?

i can t quite unerstand you are you from the country? ( neg 1 )


SEEN LOADS OF FATSOES AROUND HERE EAT TOO MUCH CHEESE ?

DO U HAVE CHEESE AFTER OR BEFORE DESSERT

THre is a strong smell of garlic around here? CAN T BE YOU PROBABLY ONE OF THOSE CHEESES ( neg 2 )


I don t believe in showing your ****y side rite off like some guy here who wrote " what are WE cooking FOR dinner

Women don t like players
 

ALPHAROMEO

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say " cheese "

i see a HB at the supermarket
before approaching her , i imagine 4 Qs i will ask her in 30 SECONDS

IT S a fun exercise to do i practise everyday at home in the supermarket itself TRY IT

IMAGINE YOU ARE AT THE CHEESE COUNTER
Give yourself 30 seconds to work out 4 Qs
do it everyday
i ll gaurantee you ll never be at a loss for words
:kick: :kick:
 

zekko

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I never understood why the "supermarket" is always listed as good place to meet women.
Hey, it worked for the Fonz.

i see a HB at the supermarket before approaching her , i imagine 4 Qs i will ask her in 30 SECONDS
You should approach her with a town map and ask her directions to the produce section.
:)
 
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