"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Supermarket Pick ups

Belmar2009

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I never understood why the "supermarket" is always listed as good place to meet women.

I mean, yeah, there are attractive women there, but it is very, very awkward to try and pick up a woman in a supermarket especially when there are no
IOI's.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AlmostThere!

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There's always an exception, but I too wouldn't put supermarkets at the top of my list.
 

Game_going_good

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I would say the streets are better than the supermarkets.

Now, if it was malls, thats different.
 

Belmar2009

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Game_going_good said:
I would say the streets are better than the supermarkets.

Now, if it was malls, thats different.

Exactly!

What are you supposed to say?

"So, grocery shopping heh?"

or

Hey, nice cucumber.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You better have a lot to offer if you're gonna meet a girl in a supermarket. A shopping mall is much better.
 

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Nice melons...

Juvenile kidding aside, if you are attractive, she will be attracted. You could be in an igloo, a grocery store, whatever.
 

jdbman11

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you're putting alot of emphasis on the situation. just use the same principles...

DJ: that shampoo probably isn't going to work. YOU will probably need something more potent like this...

DJ: Hey that's a cute shirt are you shopping for your mom?

DJ: Hey that's a great CD are you shopping for your grandma?

DJ: You know they have that in low calorie too?
 

Snow Plowman

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Only awkward cause of your thoughts behind it...

If you were giving women the opportunity to meet you, would it then be weird???

Could that mean you would be able to just walk up and say "agh not carrots again" or "So what are we cooking for dinner today."

Thing is any moment regardless how you go in is her chance to show you she is the woman for you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ALPHAROMEO

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say "cheese"

:moon: how do you know this cheese is mature ?

I M HAVING MY BOSS DINNER which cheeses woud you serve ?

CAN U MELT or TOAST THIS CHEESE ?

i can t quite unerstand you are you from the country? ( neg 1 )


SEEN LOADS OF FATSOES AROUND HERE EAT TOO MUCH CHEESE ?

DO U HAVE CHEESE AFTER OR BEFORE DESSERT

THre is a strong smell of garlic around here? CAN T BE YOU PROBABLY ONE OF THOSE CHEESES ( neg 2 )


I don t believe in showing your ****y side rite off like some guy here who wrote " what are WE cooking FOR dinner

Women don t like players
 

ALPHAROMEO

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say " cheese "

i see a HB at the supermarket
before approaching her , i imagine 4 Qs i will ask her in 30 SECONDS

IT S a fun exercise to do i practise everyday at home in the supermarket itself TRY IT

IMAGINE YOU ARE AT THE CHEESE COUNTER
Give yourself 30 seconds to work out 4 Qs
do it everyday
i ll gaurantee you ll never be at a loss for words
:kick: :kick:
 

zekko

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I never understood why the "supermarket" is always listed as good place to meet women.
Hey, it worked for the Fonz.

i see a HB at the supermarket before approaching her , i imagine 4 Qs i will ask her in 30 SECONDS
You should approach her with a town map and ask her directions to the produce section.
:)
 
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