"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Supermarket Pick ups

Belmar2009

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I never understood why the "supermarket" is always listed as good place to meet women.

I mean, yeah, there are attractive women there, but it is very, very awkward to try and pick up a woman in a supermarket especially when there are no
IOI's.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AlmostThere!

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There's always an exception, but I too wouldn't put supermarkets at the top of my list.
 

Game_going_good

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I would say the streets are better than the supermarkets.

Now, if it was malls, thats different.
 

Belmar2009

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Game_going_good said:
I would say the streets are better than the supermarkets.

Now, if it was malls, thats different.

Exactly!

What are you supposed to say?

"So, grocery shopping heh?"

or

Hey, nice cucumber.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You better have a lot to offer if you're gonna meet a girl in a supermarket. A shopping mall is much better.
 

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Nice melons...

Juvenile kidding aside, if you are attractive, she will be attracted. You could be in an igloo, a grocery store, whatever.
 

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you're putting alot of emphasis on the situation. just use the same principles...

DJ: that shampoo probably isn't going to work. YOU will probably need something more potent like this...

DJ: Hey that's a cute shirt are you shopping for your mom?

DJ: Hey that's a great CD are you shopping for your grandma?

DJ: You know they have that in low calorie too?
 

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Only awkward cause of your thoughts behind it...

If you were giving women the opportunity to meet you, would it then be weird???

Could that mean you would be able to just walk up and say "agh not carrots again" or "So what are we cooking for dinner today."

Thing is any moment regardless how you go in is her chance to show you she is the woman for you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ALPHAROMEO

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say "cheese"

:moon: how do you know this cheese is mature ?

I M HAVING MY BOSS DINNER which cheeses woud you serve ?

CAN U MELT or TOAST THIS CHEESE ?

i can t quite unerstand you are you from the country? ( neg 1 )


SEEN LOADS OF FATSOES AROUND HERE EAT TOO MUCH CHEESE ?

DO U HAVE CHEESE AFTER OR BEFORE DESSERT

THre is a strong smell of garlic around here? CAN T BE YOU PROBABLY ONE OF THOSE CHEESES ( neg 2 )


I don t believe in showing your ****y side rite off like some guy here who wrote " what are WE cooking FOR dinner

Women don t like players
 

ALPHAROMEO

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say " cheese "

i see a HB at the supermarket
before approaching her , i imagine 4 Qs i will ask her in 30 SECONDS

IT S a fun exercise to do i practise everyday at home in the supermarket itself TRY IT

IMAGINE YOU ARE AT THE CHEESE COUNTER
Give yourself 30 seconds to work out 4 Qs
do it everyday
i ll gaurantee you ll never be at a loss for words
:kick: :kick:
 

zekko

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I never understood why the "supermarket" is always listed as good place to meet women.
Hey, it worked for the Fonz.

i see a HB at the supermarket before approaching her , i imagine 4 Qs i will ask her in 30 SECONDS
You should approach her with a town map and ask her directions to the produce section.
:)
 
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