"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Suits (cloth, not legal)

Retrothe80sninja

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I have a question that has been nagging me for a while now. Previous to now, I have always dressed casually for a high school student, t-shirt, shorts, etc. but I have always enjoyed wearing a suit or at least men's casual business attire. So, I went over to my local good will and picked up a large assortment of cheap suits. My question is, would wearing suits (or just dressing more formally than expected) negatively impact my attractiveness? I understand that the most important characteristics are confidence, ambition, etc. (yes, I have read the DJ Bible) but I just am unsure about the whole suit business; I just don't want people thinking I am a weirdo.

Just for info about myself in case you are wondering I am 6'1" and weigh 165 and have a decent build.
Here is a picture, just in case
http://ee.1asphost.com/retrothe80sninja/Other stuff for Joe/JoeSuit.bmp
Any feedback would be appreciated.

Edit: I figure most people would not find anything unusual about wearing a suit but I am talking about High-School age people here, just keep that in mind.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Retrothe80sninja

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Ah, thanks for the tip and the link, I think I will just stick with my previous plan then but throw in a little variety, maybe a jacket on cool days, and some long pants that aren't part of a suit.
 

Capi Crimini

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I'd say it's a bit wierd.... Although... there was one kid who wore full suits to our school a lot... he was pretty popular. It was his 'thing'.

For suits... You gotta get french cuffs. Stand out...get a cool hat...Fit in but be different...
 

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You would look like a 15 year old that has his mom dress him. Do you really want to go that route? Either that or a rich prick that has too much money for his own good.. which could be good in the long run.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Capi Crimini

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matters on the suit... and how you wear it.

If you went out french cuffs... Power tie. Pocket hankerchief. Stuff like that... A tight hat... You'd look rich.

But you have to have a reason why your wearing it. Not an excuse a reason...

Plus you have to fit the profile of the suit. you can't just go ganster to suit...Unless its a gangster suit... anyway..I'd stick wit normal cloths...suits for nice occasions
 
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