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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Suits (cloth, not legal)

Retrothe80sninja

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I have a question that has been nagging me for a while now. Previous to now, I have always dressed casually for a high school student, t-shirt, shorts, etc. but I have always enjoyed wearing a suit or at least men's casual business attire. So, I went over to my local good will and picked up a large assortment of cheap suits. My question is, would wearing suits (or just dressing more formally than expected) negatively impact my attractiveness? I understand that the most important characteristics are confidence, ambition, etc. (yes, I have read the DJ Bible) but I just am unsure about the whole suit business; I just don't want people thinking I am a weirdo.

Just for info about myself in case you are wondering I am 6'1" and weigh 165 and have a decent build.
Here is a picture, just in case
http://ee.1asphost.com/retrothe80sninja/Other stuff for Joe/JoeSuit.bmp
Any feedback would be appreciated.

Edit: I figure most people would not find anything unusual about wearing a suit but I am talking about High-School age people here, just keep that in mind.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Retrothe80sninja

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Ah, thanks for the tip and the link, I think I will just stick with my previous plan then but throw in a little variety, maybe a jacket on cool days, and some long pants that aren't part of a suit.
 

Capi Crimini

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I'd say it's a bit wierd.... Although... there was one kid who wore full suits to our school a lot... he was pretty popular. It was his 'thing'.

For suits... You gotta get french cuffs. Stand out...get a cool hat...Fit in but be different...
 

splinterkb

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You would look like a 15 year old that has his mom dress him. Do you really want to go that route? Either that or a rich prick that has too much money for his own good.. which could be good in the long run.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Capi Crimini

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matters on the suit... and how you wear it.

If you went out french cuffs... Power tie. Pocket hankerchief. Stuff like that... A tight hat... You'd look rich.

But you have to have a reason why your wearing it. Not an excuse a reason...

Plus you have to fit the profile of the suit. you can't just go ganster to suit...Unless its a gangster suit... anyway..I'd stick wit normal cloths...suits for nice occasions
 
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