"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Suits (cloth, not legal)

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I have a question that has been nagging me for a while now. Previous to now, I have always dressed casually for a high school student, t-shirt, shorts, etc. but I have always enjoyed wearing a suit or at least men's casual business attire. So, I went over to my local good will and picked up a large assortment of cheap suits. My question is, would wearing suits (or just dressing more formally than expected) negatively impact my attractiveness? I understand that the most important characteristics are confidence, ambition, etc. (yes, I have read the DJ Bible) but I just am unsure about the whole suit business; I just don't want people thinking I am a weirdo.

Just for info about myself in case you are wondering I am 6'1" and weigh 165 and have a decent build.
Here is a picture, just in case
http://ee.1asphost.com/retrothe80sninja/Other stuff for Joe/JoeSuit.bmp
Any feedback would be appreciated.

Edit: I figure most people would not find anything unusual about wearing a suit but I am talking about High-School age people here, just keep that in mind.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Retrothe80sninja

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Ah, thanks for the tip and the link, I think I will just stick with my previous plan then but throw in a little variety, maybe a jacket on cool days, and some long pants that aren't part of a suit.
 
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I'd say it's a bit wierd.... Although... there was one kid who wore full suits to our school a lot... he was pretty popular. It was his 'thing'.

For suits... You gotta get french cuffs. Stand out...get a cool hat...Fit in but be different...
 
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You would look like a 15 year old that has his mom dress him. Do you really want to go that route? Either that or a rich prick that has too much money for his own good.. which could be good in the long run.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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matters on the suit... and how you wear it.

If you went out french cuffs... Power tie. Pocket hankerchief. Stuff like that... A tight hat... You'd look rich.

But you have to have a reason why your wearing it. Not an excuse a reason...

Plus you have to fit the profile of the suit. you can't just go ganster to suit...Unless its a gangster suit... anyway..I'd stick wit normal cloths...suits for nice occasions
 
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