"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sugar Dating on Rise

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I disagree, I don't think you do, I see the way you act and carry yourself on this forum, it's not a good look and it's evident your life is riddled with issues that you then project onto So Suave.
Opinions are like @ssholes. Everyone has one. Your entitled to yours. Simply wrong. And for the record everyone has issues in some way or other. Unless you claim to be JFC.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Opinions are like @ssholes. Everyone has one. Your entitled to yours. Simply wrong. And for the record everyone has issues in some way or other. Unless you claim to be JFC.
Simply wrong, but can't offer anything of substance other than words, I see you.
 

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Block me please if you don't like my advice. Simple concept.
I can't block people in real life, so I don't do it here, I can't just drink my own Kool-Aid all day I need to consider the thoughts of others. Why don't you expand upon said advice for me?
 

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Oldest profession in the world. Man needs sex, woman needs mans resources. I don't see the problem here?

It's the basis of most "normal" relationships anyway and it proves that feminism has failed
I agree, most relationships are based on convenience, resource or otherwise.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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20 years ago, there was no websites or apps for this. It had to occur somewhat naturally. There still had to be somewhat of a little interest in his personality. He still had to have a little game. Professional babies had to "hunt" and put in major time and effort.

Now, apps are so convenient, any bottom feeder can post a profile in-between junior college classes.
Tech assisted sugar dating has been on the rise for ~5 years. You're absolutely correct that the barriers to entry are lower now than 20 years ago.

A lot of more affluent guys report getting more attention on sugar dating websites than on Tinder/Hinge/Bumble/Match.

Do you think the arrangements occurring naturally is better?
 

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I did. A man doesn't rely on anyone to earn a living but themself.
And yet here you are.

Some living bud.

Please go on about how men Should do this and that while you sit on So Suave all day.

You got nothing for me, your just frustrated cause no woman would ever spend a dollar on your old stank.

As if you came in here to claim anybody other than yourself is pathetic. Shameful.
 
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And yet here you are.

Some living bud.

Please go on about how men Should do this and that while you sit on So Suave all day.

You got nothing for me, your just frustrated cause no woman would ever spend a dollar on your old stank.

As if you came in here to claim anybody other than yourself is pathetic. Shameful.
Lmao! I'm not talking about buying dinner or tickets to a game or movie or things like that. I am talking about these dudes looking for women to pay their bills and their rent and their car payments etc.

Allowing women to invest in you is always good. Having them pay your bills is not.

Sorry if you can't get this. Software engineers get paid well...I am not hurting trust me.
 

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Tech assisted sugar dating has been on the rise for ~5 years. You're absolutely correct that the barriers to entry are lower now than 20 years ago.

A lot of more affluent guys report getting more attention on sugar dating websites than on Tinder/Hinge/Bumble/Match.

Do you think the arrangements occurring naturally is better?
use what you have; why have it if it is of no use.

It's sort of like asking why a female 5 gives better head than an 8; usually. what one is better; it depends on the mood.

gonna tell a man that has the choice that he should fake being alpha when he can get attention all day long by just doing what he is good at. granted it is for different reasons, but at some point, we are getting too picky. it's still all OLD and most/many of the seekers are working on self-improvement, why take ugly if having a choice. either way, a guy has to be aware and careful. hundreds of choices vs begging.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You guys are just bitter that you aren't some wealthy middle eastern guy that can invite a top IG "model" and fly her in so you and all your friends can piss and $hit on her face. LOL :rofl:

 

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Can't really say I'm surprised, I prefer women with money myself.

Think of it this way.. At least you do not have to take them out to dinner. You give them an allowance and leave. Like a child I guess; just they are 18 or above and it's about sex.
 

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You guys are just bitter that you aren't some wealthy middle eastern guy that can invite a top IG "model" and fly her in so you and all your friends can piss and $hit on her face. LOL :rofl:

Go check http://tagthesponsor.com/home-page/ for some interesting chats between the sand princes and IGMs. Shows you the true amount of self-respect they have for themselves. 10k for sex, to be peed on and to be s hit on. Unreal.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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We do try.
Explain yourself then, you try, yet this is the first comment.
Guys looking for women to pay for things is pretty pathetic.
This a mod. Saying what, exactly? Anyone who this applies to is pathetic? What is being added here?
@Dash Riprock and @CAPSLOCK BANDIT chill dudes. Everyone is allowed to have their own opinion.
What is the point of this blurb, when your not even addressing the core issue here, I don't think homie would of came in here and called thus outright pathetic, yet one of your mods is setting the precedence of it, so please, try to explain to me what is happening here?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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