"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Successful bulking cycle: Gained 14 lbs in 35 days

MetalFortress

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At my aunt's house (stayed over for one night with my mom and sis), I weighed myself 6-8 times during different times of day and night to confirm that the scale wasn't batty. The lowest weight I came to was 229, the highest was 233, and others were 229.5 and 232. Therefore, I'm using 230 as an average to be conservative. I'm going to weigh myself on the same scale that I got the 216 and 220 on originally to determine whether one or the other scale really IS batty.

Mybodycomp.com bodyfat measurements are a bit batty, IMO. They're telling me that I stayed the same, around 12-13%, which seems low on both ends (216 and 230). I did gain 7/5 inches on my shoulders and 4/5 on my chest, and a bit less on my thigh, half an inch I think, and hardened up. My waist size has stayed pretty much the same. Didn't grow out of any shorts.

The date was from 9/8 to 10/12.

Now comes the cutting cycle. I'll report back and tell you all if I have visible abs by November ^_^

BTW, I burnt out a bit mentally, and took a week off, and now I'm setting a bunch of PR's. I did 4 straight BW chins and 2 strict military presses per arm with the 72 lb kettlebell. Other work feels easier than it used to. I did a workout that I didn't post here last Wednesday, and ended up canning the 20-rep squat because horrible power clean form (should have skipped those, I was way tired) gave my lower back a lot of DOMS. I figured out where I went wrong on PC's though, so I'm good now.

I'll confirm this tomorrow on the scale I got 216 and 220 on.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How tall are you? You sure you need more bulking? Your pretty damn big you got like 100 pounds on me and im 5'8 LOL.
 

jakethasnake

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Those are some sick gains, my friend. Well done.


Btw, are you an ectomorph, or a mesomorph? Body builds can have an effect on overall weight gain, even at the same height. For example, I'm sure an extreme ectomorph at 6'1" would have maxed out at around 200 pounds, TOPS.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJGirevik,

Bodytypes can never change through the course of one's lifetime. If one is born an ectomorph or endomorph, that stays with you for life. Ectomorphs will always stay skinny unless drastic measures are taken, and endomorphs will always have to watch their weight.

But individuals can still be a combination of the three main bodytypes (ecto, meso, endo), for example and 'endomorphic mesomorph (is naturally broad framed and muscular, but has a tendency to get fat easily). Or an 'mesomorphic endomorph' (naturally fat, but muscular underneat - has potential to be jacked). I'm guessing that you're one of either.
 

jakethasnake

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Btw, where is Vista located in California? I'm just curious... I'm a geography nut. :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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