"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Successful bulking cycle: Gained 14 lbs in 35 days

MetalFortress

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At my aunt's house (stayed over for one night with my mom and sis), I weighed myself 6-8 times during different times of day and night to confirm that the scale wasn't batty. The lowest weight I came to was 229, the highest was 233, and others were 229.5 and 232. Therefore, I'm using 230 as an average to be conservative. I'm going to weigh myself on the same scale that I got the 216 and 220 on originally to determine whether one or the other scale really IS batty.

Mybodycomp.com bodyfat measurements are a bit batty, IMO. They're telling me that I stayed the same, around 12-13%, which seems low on both ends (216 and 230). I did gain 7/5 inches on my shoulders and 4/5 on my chest, and a bit less on my thigh, half an inch I think, and hardened up. My waist size has stayed pretty much the same. Didn't grow out of any shorts.

The date was from 9/8 to 10/12.

Now comes the cutting cycle. I'll report back and tell you all if I have visible abs by November ^_^

BTW, I burnt out a bit mentally, and took a week off, and now I'm setting a bunch of PR's. I did 4 straight BW chins and 2 strict military presses per arm with the 72 lb kettlebell. Other work feels easier than it used to. I did a workout that I didn't post here last Wednesday, and ended up canning the 20-rep squat because horrible power clean form (should have skipped those, I was way tired) gave my lower back a lot of DOMS. I figured out where I went wrong on PC's though, so I'm good now.

I'll confirm this tomorrow on the scale I got 216 and 220 on.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How tall are you? You sure you need more bulking? Your pretty damn big you got like 100 pounds on me and im 5'8 LOL.
 

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Those are some sick gains, my friend. Well done.


Btw, are you an ectomorph, or a mesomorph? Body builds can have an effect on overall weight gain, even at the same height. For example, I'm sure an extreme ectomorph at 6'1" would have maxed out at around 200 pounds, TOPS.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJGirevik,

Bodytypes can never change through the course of one's lifetime. If one is born an ectomorph or endomorph, that stays with you for life. Ectomorphs will always stay skinny unless drastic measures are taken, and endomorphs will always have to watch their weight.

But individuals can still be a combination of the three main bodytypes (ecto, meso, endo), for example and 'endomorphic mesomorph (is naturally broad framed and muscular, but has a tendency to get fat easily). Or an 'mesomorphic endomorph' (naturally fat, but muscular underneat - has potential to be jacked). I'm guessing that you're one of either.
 

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Btw, where is Vista located in California? I'm just curious... I'm a geography nut. :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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