"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Successful bulking cycle: Gained 14 lbs in 35 days

MetalFortress

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At my aunt's house (stayed over for one night with my mom and sis), I weighed myself 6-8 times during different times of day and night to confirm that the scale wasn't batty. The lowest weight I came to was 229, the highest was 233, and others were 229.5 and 232. Therefore, I'm using 230 as an average to be conservative. I'm going to weigh myself on the same scale that I got the 216 and 220 on originally to determine whether one or the other scale really IS batty.

Mybodycomp.com bodyfat measurements are a bit batty, IMO. They're telling me that I stayed the same, around 12-13%, which seems low on both ends (216 and 230). I did gain 7/5 inches on my shoulders and 4/5 on my chest, and a bit less on my thigh, half an inch I think, and hardened up. My waist size has stayed pretty much the same. Didn't grow out of any shorts.

The date was from 9/8 to 10/12.

Now comes the cutting cycle. I'll report back and tell you all if I have visible abs by November ^_^

BTW, I burnt out a bit mentally, and took a week off, and now I'm setting a bunch of PR's. I did 4 straight BW chins and 2 strict military presses per arm with the 72 lb kettlebell. Other work feels easier than it used to. I did a workout that I didn't post here last Wednesday, and ended up canning the 20-rep squat because horrible power clean form (should have skipped those, I was way tired) gave my lower back a lot of DOMS. I figured out where I went wrong on PC's though, so I'm good now.

I'll confirm this tomorrow on the scale I got 216 and 220 on.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How tall are you? You sure you need more bulking? Your pretty damn big you got like 100 pounds on me and im 5'8 LOL.
 

jakethasnake

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Those are some sick gains, my friend. Well done.


Btw, are you an ectomorph, or a mesomorph? Body builds can have an effect on overall weight gain, even at the same height. For example, I'm sure an extreme ectomorph at 6'1" would have maxed out at around 200 pounds, TOPS.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jakethasnake

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DJGirevik,

Bodytypes can never change through the course of one's lifetime. If one is born an ectomorph or endomorph, that stays with you for life. Ectomorphs will always stay skinny unless drastic measures are taken, and endomorphs will always have to watch their weight.

But individuals can still be a combination of the three main bodytypes (ecto, meso, endo), for example and 'endomorphic mesomorph (is naturally broad framed and muscular, but has a tendency to get fat easily). Or an 'mesomorphic endomorph' (naturally fat, but muscular underneat - has potential to be jacked). I'm guessing that you're one of either.
 

jakethasnake

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Btw, where is Vista located in California? I'm just curious... I'm a geography nut. :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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