"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mr. Mystery II

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Guys, #'s aren't nessecarily that important, depending on your goal.

I get numbers and have a very high ratio, generally I only get numbers from girls that are interested, I'm looking for several casual relationships, thats my thing.

On the other hand, I was discussing a girls number my friend got the other day, he said he didn't need it anyway, he doesn't call, if he doesn't hit it that night, then he moves on to the next girl he meets tomarrow night. I prefer to have a girl to chill with and have sex with.

As far as how to go about getting the number, wait until you have established some rapport, be it on the dance floor mostly physically, or talking to them for a little while. And the only way to get good at either is to practice them.

I still get rejected tons, but I rarely get rejected when I go for a number, and when I got a number I definetly have a date/get together.

Mr. Mystery
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Mr. Mystery II
Guys, #'s aren't nessecarily that important, depending on your goal.

I get numbers and have a very high ratio, generally I only get numbers from girls that are interested, I'm looking for several casual relationships, thats my thing.

On the other hand, I was discussing a girls number my friend got the other day, he said he didn't need it anyway, he doesn't call, if he doesn't hit it that night, then he moves on to the next girl he meets tomarrow night. I prefer to have a girl to chill with and have sex with.

As far as how to go about getting the number, wait until you have established some rapport, be it on the dance floor mostly physically, or talking to them for a little while. And the only way to get good at either is to practice them.

Mr. Mystery

Yeah that is good advice. Today was a hard day, I was a little tired wasn't as sharp as I usually am, but that goes to show you , you have to be energetic and happy when you go sarging.
 

KnightRyder

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Originally posted by Mr. Mystery II
Guys, #'s aren't nessecarily that important, depending on your goal.

I get numbers and have a very high ratio, generally I only get numbers from girls that are interested, I'm looking for several casual relationships, thats my thing.

On the other hand, I was discussing a girls number my friend got the other day, he said he didn't need it anyway, he doesn't call, if he doesn't hit it that night, then he moves on to the next girl he meets tomarrow night. I prefer to have a girl to chill with and have sex with.

As far as how to go about getting the number, wait until you have established some rapport, be it on the dance floor mostly physically, or talking to them for a little while. And the only way to get good at either is to practice them.

Mr. Mystery

Yeah that is good advice. Today was a hard day, I was a little tired wasn't as sharp as I usually am, but that goes to show you , you have to be energetic and happy when you go sarging.
 

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numbers dont mean ****. Go for the whole shebang. Go for the kis b4 the number playa. After you kiss her she'll give you her number. I just hand them my phone. After I get the number I DONT STOP. I game them more. I then attempt to venue change them back to my room for the lay.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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do not go for number. go for the kiss and lay.
 
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Originally posted by Mr. Mystery II


I get numbers and have a very high ratio, generally I only get numbers from girls that are interested ...

thats a good advice, cuz Im focusing on that too. Usually asking for the # no matter what WAS a rule for me ... Never felt how much interest ir disinterest they showed
 
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