"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mr. Mystery II

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Guys, #'s aren't nessecarily that important, depending on your goal.

I get numbers and have a very high ratio, generally I only get numbers from girls that are interested, I'm looking for several casual relationships, thats my thing.

On the other hand, I was discussing a girls number my friend got the other day, he said he didn't need it anyway, he doesn't call, if he doesn't hit it that night, then he moves on to the next girl he meets tomarrow night. I prefer to have a girl to chill with and have sex with.

As far as how to go about getting the number, wait until you have established some rapport, be it on the dance floor mostly physically, or talking to them for a little while. And the only way to get good at either is to practice them.

I still get rejected tons, but I rarely get rejected when I go for a number, and when I got a number I definetly have a date/get together.

Mr. Mystery
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Mr. Mystery II
Guys, #'s aren't nessecarily that important, depending on your goal.

I get numbers and have a very high ratio, generally I only get numbers from girls that are interested, I'm looking for several casual relationships, thats my thing.

On the other hand, I was discussing a girls number my friend got the other day, he said he didn't need it anyway, he doesn't call, if he doesn't hit it that night, then he moves on to the next girl he meets tomarrow night. I prefer to have a girl to chill with and have sex with.

As far as how to go about getting the number, wait until you have established some rapport, be it on the dance floor mostly physically, or talking to them for a little while. And the only way to get good at either is to practice them.

Mr. Mystery

Yeah that is good advice. Today was a hard day, I was a little tired wasn't as sharp as I usually am, but that goes to show you , you have to be energetic and happy when you go sarging.
 

KnightRyder

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Originally posted by Mr. Mystery II
Guys, #'s aren't nessecarily that important, depending on your goal.

I get numbers and have a very high ratio, generally I only get numbers from girls that are interested, I'm looking for several casual relationships, thats my thing.

On the other hand, I was discussing a girls number my friend got the other day, he said he didn't need it anyway, he doesn't call, if he doesn't hit it that night, then he moves on to the next girl he meets tomarrow night. I prefer to have a girl to chill with and have sex with.

As far as how to go about getting the number, wait until you have established some rapport, be it on the dance floor mostly physically, or talking to them for a little while. And the only way to get good at either is to practice them.

Mr. Mystery

Yeah that is good advice. Today was a hard day, I was a little tired wasn't as sharp as I usually am, but that goes to show you , you have to be energetic and happy when you go sarging.
 

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numbers dont mean ****. Go for the whole shebang. Go for the kis b4 the number playa. After you kiss her she'll give you her number. I just hand them my phone. After I get the number I DONT STOP. I game them more. I then attempt to venue change them back to my room for the lay.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do not go for number. go for the kiss and lay.
 
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Originally posted by Mr. Mystery II


I get numbers and have a very high ratio, generally I only get numbers from girls that are interested ...

thats a good advice, cuz Im focusing on that too. Usually asking for the # no matter what WAS a rule for me ... Never felt how much interest ir disinterest they showed
 
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