"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mr. Mystery II

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Guys, #'s aren't nessecarily that important, depending on your goal.

I get numbers and have a very high ratio, generally I only get numbers from girls that are interested, I'm looking for several casual relationships, thats my thing.

On the other hand, I was discussing a girls number my friend got the other day, he said he didn't need it anyway, he doesn't call, if he doesn't hit it that night, then he moves on to the next girl he meets tomarrow night. I prefer to have a girl to chill with and have sex with.

As far as how to go about getting the number, wait until you have established some rapport, be it on the dance floor mostly physically, or talking to them for a little while. And the only way to get good at either is to practice them.

I still get rejected tons, but I rarely get rejected when I go for a number, and when I got a number I definetly have a date/get together.

Mr. Mystery
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Mr. Mystery II
Guys, #'s aren't nessecarily that important, depending on your goal.

I get numbers and have a very high ratio, generally I only get numbers from girls that are interested, I'm looking for several casual relationships, thats my thing.

On the other hand, I was discussing a girls number my friend got the other day, he said he didn't need it anyway, he doesn't call, if he doesn't hit it that night, then he moves on to the next girl he meets tomarrow night. I prefer to have a girl to chill with and have sex with.

As far as how to go about getting the number, wait until you have established some rapport, be it on the dance floor mostly physically, or talking to them for a little while. And the only way to get good at either is to practice them.

Mr. Mystery

Yeah that is good advice. Today was a hard day, I was a little tired wasn't as sharp as I usually am, but that goes to show you , you have to be energetic and happy when you go sarging.
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Mystery II
Guys, #'s aren't nessecarily that important, depending on your goal.

I get numbers and have a very high ratio, generally I only get numbers from girls that are interested, I'm looking for several casual relationships, thats my thing.

On the other hand, I was discussing a girls number my friend got the other day, he said he didn't need it anyway, he doesn't call, if he doesn't hit it that night, then he moves on to the next girl he meets tomarrow night. I prefer to have a girl to chill with and have sex with.

As far as how to go about getting the number, wait until you have established some rapport, be it on the dance floor mostly physically, or talking to them for a little while. And the only way to get good at either is to practice them.

Mr. Mystery

Yeah that is good advice. Today was a hard day, I was a little tired wasn't as sharp as I usually am, but that goes to show you , you have to be energetic and happy when you go sarging.
 

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numbers dont mean ****. Go for the whole shebang. Go for the kis b4 the number playa. After you kiss her she'll give you her number. I just hand them my phone. After I get the number I DONT STOP. I game them more. I then attempt to venue change them back to my room for the lay.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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do not go for number. go for the kiss and lay.
 
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Originally posted by Mr. Mystery II


I get numbers and have a very high ratio, generally I only get numbers from girls that are interested ...

thats a good advice, cuz Im focusing on that too. Usually asking for the # no matter what WAS a rule for me ... Never felt how much interest ir disinterest they showed
 
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