"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Another great salsa night with a few of the lads. Got the 3 approaches locked down. Just having a good time chatting to random guys and chicks. Took a number of a Spanish HB8. Great ass and legs.

Something I need to manage with more finesse is dealing with interactions from other chicks after I take a number. When the club only has one room I always get paranoid the first chick might catch me trying to take a number from a new one.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Another great salsa night with a few of the lads. Got the 3 approaches locked down. Just having a good time chatting to random guys and chicks. Took a number of a Spanish HB8. Great ass and legs.

Something I need to manage with more finesse is dealing with interactions from other chicks after I take a number. When the club only has one room I always get paranoid the first chick might catch me trying to take a number from a new one.
Salsa easy. Getting numbers is ok.
 

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Another great salsa night with a few of the lads. Got the 3 approaches locked down. Just having a good time chatting to random guys and chicks. Took a number of a Spanish HB8. Great ass and legs.

Something I need to manage with more finesse is dealing with interactions from other chicks after I take a number. When the club only has one room I always get paranoid the first chick might catch me trying to take a number from a new one.
Point them outside the floor towards a wall. Have her text you.
 

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Thats true about its not the 50s. A small amount of women reward merit and loyalty.
A women's ultimate loyalty is always congruent towards her biological imperative = her survival and a close second, that of her offspring.

Men should understand and accept this.
 
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A women's ultimate loyalty is always congruent towards her biological imperative = her survival and a close second, that of her offspring.

Men should understand and accept this.
The end.
Everything else is wishful thinking. Disney make believe.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Exactly.

Men thinking that women hv the same set of loyalties and sacrificial love inherent in men.

Either pure delusions or not knowing any better.
If men could really get this and understand it. Most of the threads wouldn’t even be necessary.
Most of the conversations are based around the false hope that someday it will all come together for them. The woman who understands the importance of loyalty and decency will be there for them. The old school woman who can control her biology with honor and decency.

All it does is set men up for harvesting. The harvesting of men and their silly romantic absurdities. Harvesting their assets and resources.
Ever notice how women laugh and say men are soooooo stupid? Stupid little boys.
I’ve overheard it many times. It’s embarrassing now that I know what I know.
 

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If men could really get this and understand it. Most of the threads wouldn’t even be necessary.
Most of the conversations are based around the false hope that someday it will all come together for them. The woman who understands the importance of loyalty and decency will be there for them. The old school woman who can control her biology with honor and decency.

All it does is set men up for harvesting. The harvesting of men and their silly romantic absurdities. Harvesting their assets and resources.
Ever notice how women laugh and say men are soooooo stupid? Stupid little boys.
I’ve overheard it many times. It’s embarrassing now that I know what I know.
Hahaha

It's women being smart enough to use men's inherent traits to their advantage and men generally being stuck in 1 particular mindset.

Then they start b1tching when they don't get what they want like small boys do...
 

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Hahaha

It's women being smart enough to use men's inherent traits to their advantage and men generally being stuck in 1 particular mindset.

Then they start b1tching when they don't get what they want like small boys do...
So we should change our mindset due to women?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If men could really get this and understand it. Most of the threads wouldn’t even be necessary.
Most of the conversations are based around the false hope that someday it will all come together for them. The woman who understands the importance of loyalty and decency will be there for them. The old school woman who can control her biology with honor and decency.

All it does is set men up for harvesting. The harvesting of men and their silly romantic absurdities. Harvesting their assets and resources.
Ever notice how women laugh and say men are soooooo stupid? Stupid little boys.
I’ve overheard it many times. It’s embarrassing now that I know what I know.
When we know what we know wed be retarded to help them in any other way but sex?
 

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So your belief is ALL or most women do not value loyalty or consistency?
It's a little bit more complicated then that but put it in perspective then yes it's all.

The complications I mentioned is tied towards the greatness of a man. The greater the man then he generates greater loyalties from those around him, from men and women alike.
 

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It's a little bit more complicated then that but put it in perspective then yes it's all.

The complications I mentioned is tied towards the greatness of a man. The greater the man then he has greater loyalties from those around him, men and women alike.
Forces man to increased mastery. Hed be responsible and self caring enough to drop unloyal ladies.
 
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So we should change our mindset due to women?
Absolutely. That mindset came from our upbringing. Our indoctrination into a society that betrayed us.
Because it’s so deep...we think that’s how we are.
Rollo and Jordan Peterson covered this. It’s Disney land.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Absolutely. That mindset came from our upbringing. Our indoctrination into a society that betrayed us.
Because it’s so deep...we think that’s how we are.
Rollo and Jordan Peterson covered this. It’s Disney land.
That program has been exploited through dozens of vulnerabilities. So yes it needs to be corrected.
 
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So your belief is ALL or most women do not value loyalty or consistency?
Oh hell no. There’s no challenge or game in that. The game is to get you to commit to loyalty. Just for them. A woman doesn’t want a man that other women don’t want to fuk. They want to be kept on their toes and working hard to keep him.
If they win the game, they yawn at how easy you were and move on out of sheer boredom.
 

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Oh hell no. There’s no challenge or game in that. The game is to get you to commit to loyalty. Just for them. A woman doesn’t want a man that other women don’t want to fuk. They want to be kept on their toes and working hard to keep him.
If they win the game, they yawn at how easy you were and move on out of sheer boredom.
Well i can accept that. Then we let our stable of hoez go then what? They cvck us?
 
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That program has been exploited through dozens of vulnerabilities. So yes it needs to be corrected.
Yes. Unlearned. There is not one thing in our social structure that is truth. Not one. There will never be rest for us. We can never just relax. Ever.
Rollo talked in great length on this in his second book.
The second you sit down in that chair and just relax and escape from the game of survival...you will never be able to get back up. She will butcher you like a hog. It’s biology.
 

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Yes. Unlearned. There is not one thing in our social structure that is truth. Not one. There will never be rest for us. We can never just relax. Ever.
Rollo talked in great length on this in his second book.
The second you sit down in that chair and just relax and escape from the game of survival...you will never be able to get back up. She will butcher you like a hog. It’s biology.
The new program needs consistent updating.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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