"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Another great salsa night with a few of the lads. Got the 3 approaches locked down. Just having a good time chatting to random guys and chicks. Took a number of a Spanish HB8. Great ass and legs.

Something I need to manage with more finesse is dealing with interactions from other chicks after I take a number. When the club only has one room I always get paranoid the first chick might catch me trying to take a number from a new one.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Another great salsa night with a few of the lads. Got the 3 approaches locked down. Just having a good time chatting to random guys and chicks. Took a number of a Spanish HB8. Great ass and legs.

Something I need to manage with more finesse is dealing with interactions from other chicks after I take a number. When the club only has one room I always get paranoid the first chick might catch me trying to take a number from a new one.
Salsa easy. Getting numbers is ok.
 

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Another great salsa night with a few of the lads. Got the 3 approaches locked down. Just having a good time chatting to random guys and chicks. Took a number of a Spanish HB8. Great ass and legs.

Something I need to manage with more finesse is dealing with interactions from other chicks after I take a number. When the club only has one room I always get paranoid the first chick might catch me trying to take a number from a new one.
Point them outside the floor towards a wall. Have her text you.
 

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Thats true about its not the 50s. A small amount of women reward merit and loyalty.
A women's ultimate loyalty is always congruent towards her biological imperative = her survival and a close second, that of her offspring.

Men should understand and accept this.
 
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A women's ultimate loyalty is always congruent towards her biological imperative = her survival and a close second, that of her offspring.

Men should understand and accept this.
The end.
Everything else is wishful thinking. Disney make believe.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Exactly.

Men thinking that women hv the same set of loyalties and sacrificial love inherent in men.

Either pure delusions or not knowing any better.
If men could really get this and understand it. Most of the threads wouldn’t even be necessary.
Most of the conversations are based around the false hope that someday it will all come together for them. The woman who understands the importance of loyalty and decency will be there for them. The old school woman who can control her biology with honor and decency.

All it does is set men up for harvesting. The harvesting of men and their silly romantic absurdities. Harvesting their assets and resources.
Ever notice how women laugh and say men are soooooo stupid? Stupid little boys.
I’ve overheard it many times. It’s embarrassing now that I know what I know.
 

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If men could really get this and understand it. Most of the threads wouldn’t even be necessary.
Most of the conversations are based around the false hope that someday it will all come together for them. The woman who understands the importance of loyalty and decency will be there for them. The old school woman who can control her biology with honor and decency.

All it does is set men up for harvesting. The harvesting of men and their silly romantic absurdities. Harvesting their assets and resources.
Ever notice how women laugh and say men are soooooo stupid? Stupid little boys.
I’ve overheard it many times. It’s embarrassing now that I know what I know.
Hahaha

It's women being smart enough to use men's inherent traits to their advantage and men generally being stuck in 1 particular mindset.

Then they start b1tching when they don't get what they want like small boys do...
 

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Hahaha

It's women being smart enough to use men's inherent traits to their advantage and men generally being stuck in 1 particular mindset.

Then they start b1tching when they don't get what they want like small boys do...
So we should change our mindset due to women?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If men could really get this and understand it. Most of the threads wouldn’t even be necessary.
Most of the conversations are based around the false hope that someday it will all come together for them. The woman who understands the importance of loyalty and decency will be there for them. The old school woman who can control her biology with honor and decency.

All it does is set men up for harvesting. The harvesting of men and their silly romantic absurdities. Harvesting their assets and resources.
Ever notice how women laugh and say men are soooooo stupid? Stupid little boys.
I’ve overheard it many times. It’s embarrassing now that I know what I know.
When we know what we know wed be retarded to help them in any other way but sex?
 

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So your belief is ALL or most women do not value loyalty or consistency?
It's a little bit more complicated then that but put it in perspective then yes it's all.

The complications I mentioned is tied towards the greatness of a man. The greater the man then he generates greater loyalties from those around him, from men and women alike.
 

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It's a little bit more complicated then that but put it in perspective then yes it's all.

The complications I mentioned is tied towards the greatness of a man. The greater the man then he has greater loyalties from those around him, men and women alike.
Forces man to increased mastery. Hed be responsible and self caring enough to drop unloyal ladies.
 
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So we should change our mindset due to women?
Absolutely. That mindset came from our upbringing. Our indoctrination into a society that betrayed us.
Because it’s so deep...we think that’s how we are.
Rollo and Jordan Peterson covered this. It’s Disney land.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Absolutely. That mindset came from our upbringing. Our indoctrination into a society that betrayed us.
Because it’s so deep...we think that’s how we are.
Rollo and Jordan Peterson covered this. It’s Disney land.
That program has been exploited through dozens of vulnerabilities. So yes it needs to be corrected.
 
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So your belief is ALL or most women do not value loyalty or consistency?
Oh hell no. There’s no challenge or game in that. The game is to get you to commit to loyalty. Just for them. A woman doesn’t want a man that other women don’t want to fuk. They want to be kept on their toes and working hard to keep him.
If they win the game, they yawn at how easy you were and move on out of sheer boredom.
 

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Oh hell no. There’s no challenge or game in that. The game is to get you to commit to loyalty. Just for them. A woman doesn’t want a man that other women don’t want to fuk. They want to be kept on their toes and working hard to keep him.
If they win the game, they yawn at how easy you were and move on out of sheer boredom.
Well i can accept that. Then we let our stable of hoez go then what? They cvck us?
 
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That program has been exploited through dozens of vulnerabilities. So yes it needs to be corrected.
Yes. Unlearned. There is not one thing in our social structure that is truth. Not one. There will never be rest for us. We can never just relax. Ever.
Rollo talked in great length on this in his second book.
The second you sit down in that chair and just relax and escape from the game of survival...you will never be able to get back up. She will butcher you like a hog. It’s biology.
 

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Yes. Unlearned. There is not one thing in our social structure that is truth. Not one. There will never be rest for us. We can never just relax. Ever.
Rollo talked in great length on this in his second book.
The second you sit down in that chair and just relax and escape from the game of survival...you will never be able to get back up. She will butcher you like a hog. It’s biology.
The new program needs consistent updating.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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