"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Subtle ways of showing interest

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I've had Waitresses leave THEIR Phone number on the receipt. I've had a bartender finish her shift, sit next to me and buy me a drink and then ask me to walk her to her car. If she is attracted, and horny she will have no problem going after you.

Waitresses, bartenders, servers get hit on every day. Usually by people who never follow through through inability, guilt or fear. I would say a clear indicator of interest is a shared Interest. A plausible and deniable reason to get together outside of her place of employment is your highest likelihood of having a date with most of them.

If you can get her to open up with some personal story, kinda show some vulnerability, you can often be more direct because she trusts you...

The conversation kinda goes "Hey I was thinking about what you told me about your XXXYYYZZZ. I'd love to talk to you more about that. You have time outside work to meet up? "
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've had Waitresses leave THEIR Phone number on the receipt. I've had a bartender finish her shift, sit next to me and buy me a drink and then ask me to walk her to her car. If she is attracted, and horny she will have no problem going after you.

Waitresses, bartenders, servers get hit on every day. Usually by people who never follow through through inability, guilt or fear. I would say a clear indicator of interest is a shared Interest. A plausible and deniable reason to get together outside of her place of employment is your highest likelihood of having a date with most of them.

If you can get her to open up with some personal story, kinda show some vulnerability, you can often be more direct because she trusts you...

The conversation kinda goes "Hey I was thinking about what you told me about your XXXYYYZZZ. I'd love to talk to you more about that. You have time outside work to meet up? "
There was another one that seemed really interested and gave me her phone number, email and facebook. But later it turned out she just wanted help with her English homework.
 

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There was another one that seemed really interested and gave me her phone number, email and facebook. But later it turned out she just wanted help with her English homework.
Intelligence is sexy. I watched a female classmate get the puppy dog dinner bowl eyes as I explained the Krebs Cycle during a study group at her home. I think I was in my first big relationship at the time though. (Who was my Lab partner in Biology).

If she invites you to her home/dorm room/apartment to study there is a high probability she is attracted.
 
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