Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Subtle Status Changes on FB

bmp2cpm

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Maybe I'm slow and you all know this, but I'm beginning to realize a tactic of some women who are/were in a relationship on Facebook is not to announce that they are single. But instead, just take off any info about the relationship.

So, if you

1) are in a relationship with a woman, periodically check her relationship status. If info about you changes to no info at all, bail immediately as she is on the lookout for a new man. Your relationship is over. Would be nice if she would tell you, but women don't work that way.

2) have eyes for someone married or in a relationship (probably not recommended) and you see her relationship changes from info about the guy to no info, she's looking and it's time to make your move. If you don't act, someone else will, sad but true.

So to sum up, the relationship is officially over when there is no FB relationship info and the guy gets no notification about it. He finds out months or even years later.

Women are so subtle. They make it an art form on how to be sneaky so us men don't get angry. Unfortunately, their techniques are quite effective. But we can adapt and catch them at their own game.

Be careful out there!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have noticed this as well. A wife of a buddy of mine mysteriously removed her "married" status on FB. He noticed it and told me about it in casual conversation. I told him that's a real red flag and a bigger deal than what it may seem like on the surface at face value. Of course, being blue pill, he thought I was paranoid and reading into it too much.. But obviously it bothered him or he wouldn't have noticed it/mentioned it to me.. Blue pillers are so funny sometimes... OP, what do jaded old guys like us know about this stuff anyway, right? ;)

Good post
 

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Agree, facebook, even moreso than true reality, is what a person wants to appear to be. If you aren't a part of that, it's certainly over in real life.
 
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