"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Subtle Status Changes on FB

bmp2cpm

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Maybe I'm slow and you all know this, but I'm beginning to realize a tactic of some women who are/were in a relationship on Facebook is not to announce that they are single. But instead, just take off any info about the relationship.

So, if you

1) are in a relationship with a woman, periodically check her relationship status. If info about you changes to no info at all, bail immediately as she is on the lookout for a new man. Your relationship is over. Would be nice if she would tell you, but women don't work that way.

2) have eyes for someone married or in a relationship (probably not recommended) and you see her relationship changes from info about the guy to no info, she's looking and it's time to make your move. If you don't act, someone else will, sad but true.

So to sum up, the relationship is officially over when there is no FB relationship info and the guy gets no notification about it. He finds out months or even years later.

Women are so subtle. They make it an art form on how to be sneaky so us men don't get angry. Unfortunately, their techniques are quite effective. But we can adapt and catch them at their own game.

Be careful out there!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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logicallefty

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I have noticed this as well. A wife of a buddy of mine mysteriously removed her "married" status on FB. He noticed it and told me about it in casual conversation. I told him that's a real red flag and a bigger deal than what it may seem like on the surface at face value. Of course, being blue pill, he thought I was paranoid and reading into it too much.. But obviously it bothered him or he wouldn't have noticed it/mentioned it to me.. Blue pillers are so funny sometimes... OP, what do jaded old guys like us know about this stuff anyway, right? ;)

Good post
 
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Agree, facebook, even moreso than true reality, is what a person wants to appear to be. If you aren't a part of that, it's certainly over in real life.
 
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