"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I know this HB(8.5 on my scale) which I know is really coming on to me(thanks to that thread about all those missed come ons). And she a driving test coming up(for her driver's license).

I was stupid enough to make a deal that if she didn't pass the test that I wouldn't talk to her until she passed it. Now I'm really hoping she passes the test. But what if she doesn't... Should I stick to the agreement and wait(and possibly lose her), or just not talk to her for a week or 2. Then decide she's suffered enough?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ha ha, I like that! (8.5 on *my* scale)

figure out some kind of joke to get through this whether she gets it or not.
be playful with it.
 

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ForAllThat said:
I know this HB(8.5 on my scale) which I know is really coming on to me(thanks to that thread about all those missed come ons). And she a driving test coming up(for her driver's license).

I was stupid enough to make a deal that if she didn't pass the test that I wouldn't talk to her until she passed it. Now I'm really hoping she passes the test. But what if she doesn't... Should I stick to the agreement and wait(and possibly lose her), or just not talk to her for a week or 2. Then decide she's suffered enough?
Unfortunately, if she fails and you "talk" to her because you just can't help yourself you are sending her the message that what you say is not what you really mean.
By saying what you said you have effectively sh1t tested your own credibility.

Be careful about what you say next time because you may just be trapped in your own words this time.

You should have promised her a reward if she passed instead of telling her that you are going to freeze her out if she failed.
 

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ForAllThat said:
I was stupid enough to make a deal that if she didn't pass the test that I wouldn't talk to her until she passed it. Now I'm really hoping she passes the test. But what if she doesn't... Should I stick to the agreement and wait(and possibly lose her), or just not talk to her for a week or 2. Then decide she's suffered enough?
WTF? How old are you? Who does this kind of elementary stuff anymore....:crackup:

You're taking yourself too seriously. I'd tease her about probably failing the test and that it would be better if she never drove anyways being a woman and all. ha There...then forget about that childish agreement.
 

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Haha, I thought so.. I have a tendency to trap myself in my own words somehow -.-'. I did tell her that if she did make it, that I'd reward her.

Thing is, she IS all like, I so wanna succeed at the test now because otherwise you won't talk to me..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ForAllThat said:
Haha, I thought so.. I have a tendency to trap myself in my own words somehow -.-'. I did tell her that if she did make it, that I'd reward her.

Thing is, she IS all like, I so wanna succeed at the test now because otherwise you won't talk to me..
well if you know she's into you like that then why are you worried whether she passes or fails?
 

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I got myself out of it, by telling it was a joke, and I wouldn't want to make her even sadder by not talking to her. (Because of course.. she obviously failed the test)

It made her extremely happy, and it got me out of my own trap
 

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Remember - offer rewards to entice women to act in ways that please you BUT only threaten or execute punishment when she acts in ways that disrespect you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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