Stupid agreement

[ForAllThat]

I know this HB(8.5 on my scale) which I know is really coming on to me(thanks to that thread about all those missed come ons). And she a driving test coming up(for her driver's license).

I was stupid enough to make a deal that if she didn't pass the test that I wouldn't talk to her until she passed it. Now I'm really hoping she passes the test. But what if she doesn't... Should I stick to the agreement and wait(and possibly lose her), or just not talk to her for a week or 2. Then decide she's suffered enough?

 

[scorpio1138]

ha ha, I like that! (8.5 on *my* scale)

figure out some kind of joke to get through this whether she gets it or not.
be playful with it.

 

[jophil28]

I know this HB(8.5 on my scale) which I know is really coming on to me(thanks to that thread about all those missed come ons). And she a driving test coming up(for her driver's license).

I was stupid enough to make a deal that if she didn't pass the test that I wouldn't talk to her until she passed it. Now I'm really hoping she passes the test. But what if she doesn't... Should I stick to the agreement and wait(and possibly lose her), or just not talk to her for a week or 2. Then decide she's suffered enough?

Unfortunately, if she fails and you "talk" to her because you just can't help yourself you are sending her the message that what you say is not what you really mean.
By saying what you said you have effectively sh1t tested your own credibility.

Be careful about what you say next time because you may just be trapped in your own words this time.

You should have promised her a reward if she passed instead of telling her that you are going to freeze her out if she failed.

 

[CarlitosWay]

I was stupid enough to make a deal that if she didn't pass the test that I wouldn't talk to her until she passed it. Now I'm really hoping she passes the test. But what if she doesn't... Should I stick to the agreement and wait(and possibly lose her), or just not talk to her for a week or 2. Then decide she's suffered enough?

WTF? How old are you? Who does this kind of elementary stuff anymore....:crackup:

You're taking yourself too seriously. I'd tease her about probably failing the test and that it would be better if she never drove anyways being a woman and all. ha There...then forget about that childish agreement.

 

[ForAllThat]

Haha, I thought so.. I have a tendency to trap myself in my own words somehow -.-'. I did tell her that if she did make it, that I'd reward her.

Thing is, she IS all like, I so wanna succeed at the test now because otherwise you won't talk to me..

 

[omega05]

Haha, I thought so.. I have a tendency to trap myself in my own words somehow -.-'. I did tell her that if she did make it, that I'd reward her.

Thing is, she IS all like, I so wanna succeed at the test now because otherwise you won't talk to me..

well if you know she's into you like that then why are you worried whether she passes or fails?

 

[FastMen]

so why yo started those silly games then....

 

[scorpio1138]

relax, she took it as a joke, but keep on her about it.
Fun stuff.

 

[ForAllThat]

I got myself out of it, by telling it was a joke, and I wouldn't want to make her even sadder by not talking to her. (Because of course.. she obviously failed the test)

It made her extremely happy, and it got me out of my own trap

 

[jophil28]

Remember - offer rewards to entice women to act in ways that please you BUT only threaten or execute punishment when she acts in ways that disrespect you.

 

[ForAllThat]

Thank you for the tip jophil, will definitely remember that.