"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stupid agreement

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I know this HB(8.5 on my scale) which I know is really coming on to me(thanks to that thread about all those missed come ons). And she a driving test coming up(for her driver's license).

I was stupid enough to make a deal that if she didn't pass the test that I wouldn't talk to her until she passed it. Now I'm really hoping she passes the test. But what if she doesn't... Should I stick to the agreement and wait(and possibly lose her), or just not talk to her for a week or 2. Then decide she's suffered enough?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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scorpio1138

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ha ha, I like that! (8.5 on *my* scale)

figure out some kind of joke to get through this whether she gets it or not.
be playful with it.
 

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ForAllThat said:
I know this HB(8.5 on my scale) which I know is really coming on to me(thanks to that thread about all those missed come ons). And she a driving test coming up(for her driver's license).

I was stupid enough to make a deal that if she didn't pass the test that I wouldn't talk to her until she passed it. Now I'm really hoping she passes the test. But what if she doesn't... Should I stick to the agreement and wait(and possibly lose her), or just not talk to her for a week or 2. Then decide she's suffered enough?
Unfortunately, if she fails and you "talk" to her because you just can't help yourself you are sending her the message that what you say is not what you really mean.
By saying what you said you have effectively sh1t tested your own credibility.

Be careful about what you say next time because you may just be trapped in your own words this time.

You should have promised her a reward if she passed instead of telling her that you are going to freeze her out if she failed.
 

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ForAllThat said:
I was stupid enough to make a deal that if she didn't pass the test that I wouldn't talk to her until she passed it. Now I'm really hoping she passes the test. But what if she doesn't... Should I stick to the agreement and wait(and possibly lose her), or just not talk to her for a week or 2. Then decide she's suffered enough?
WTF? How old are you? Who does this kind of elementary stuff anymore....:crackup:

You're taking yourself too seriously. I'd tease her about probably failing the test and that it would be better if she never drove anyways being a woman and all. ha There...then forget about that childish agreement.
 

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Haha, I thought so.. I have a tendency to trap myself in my own words somehow -.-'. I did tell her that if she did make it, that I'd reward her.

Thing is, she IS all like, I so wanna succeed at the test now because otherwise you won't talk to me..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ForAllThat said:
Haha, I thought so.. I have a tendency to trap myself in my own words somehow -.-'. I did tell her that if she did make it, that I'd reward her.

Thing is, she IS all like, I so wanna succeed at the test now because otherwise you won't talk to me..
well if you know she's into you like that then why are you worried whether she passes or fails?
 

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I got myself out of it, by telling it was a joke, and I wouldn't want to make her even sadder by not talking to her. (Because of course.. she obviously failed the test)

It made her extremely happy, and it got me out of my own trap
 

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Remember - offer rewards to entice women to act in ways that please you BUT only threaten or execute punishment when she acts in ways that disrespect you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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