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I know this HB(8.5 on my scale) which I know is really coming on to me(thanks to that thread about all those missed come ons). And she a driving test coming up(for her driver's license).

I was stupid enough to make a deal that if she didn't pass the test that I wouldn't talk to her until she passed it. Now I'm really hoping she passes the test. But what if she doesn't... Should I stick to the agreement and wait(and possibly lose her), or just not talk to her for a week or 2. Then decide she's suffered enough?
 

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scorpio1138

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ha ha, I like that! (8.5 on *my* scale)

figure out some kind of joke to get through this whether she gets it or not.
be playful with it.
 

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ForAllThat said:
I know this HB(8.5 on my scale) which I know is really coming on to me(thanks to that thread about all those missed come ons). And she a driving test coming up(for her driver's license).

I was stupid enough to make a deal that if she didn't pass the test that I wouldn't talk to her until she passed it. Now I'm really hoping she passes the test. But what if she doesn't... Should I stick to the agreement and wait(and possibly lose her), or just not talk to her for a week or 2. Then decide she's suffered enough?
Unfortunately, if she fails and you "talk" to her because you just can't help yourself you are sending her the message that what you say is not what you really mean.
By saying what you said you have effectively sh1t tested your own credibility.

Be careful about what you say next time because you may just be trapped in your own words this time.

You should have promised her a reward if she passed instead of telling her that you are going to freeze her out if she failed.
 

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ForAllThat said:
I was stupid enough to make a deal that if she didn't pass the test that I wouldn't talk to her until she passed it. Now I'm really hoping she passes the test. But what if she doesn't... Should I stick to the agreement and wait(and possibly lose her), or just not talk to her for a week or 2. Then decide she's suffered enough?
WTF? How old are you? Who does this kind of elementary stuff anymore....:crackup:

You're taking yourself too seriously. I'd tease her about probably failing the test and that it would be better if she never drove anyways being a woman and all. ha There...then forget about that childish agreement.
 

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Haha, I thought so.. I have a tendency to trap myself in my own words somehow -.-'. I did tell her that if she did make it, that I'd reward her.

Thing is, she IS all like, I so wanna succeed at the test now because otherwise you won't talk to me..
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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ForAllThat said:
Haha, I thought so.. I have a tendency to trap myself in my own words somehow -.-'. I did tell her that if she did make it, that I'd reward her.

Thing is, she IS all like, I so wanna succeed at the test now because otherwise you won't talk to me..
well if you know she's into you like that then why are you worried whether she passes or fails?
 

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I got myself out of it, by telling it was a joke, and I wouldn't want to make her even sadder by not talking to her. (Because of course.. she obviously failed the test)

It made her extremely happy, and it got me out of my own trap
 

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Remember - offer rewards to entice women to act in ways that please you BUT only threaten or execute punishment when she acts in ways that disrespect you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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