MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
taiyuu_otoko said:old news.
Men are genetically disposed to prefer youth. And in the old days of evolution, a naturall blond was proof of youth, as blond color tended to fade as one aged.
So men that had a natural inclination for blonds passes on more genes, yielding more men who preferred blonds. So even today blonds are preferred, despite all the possible chemical alterations.
Any indication of youth is preferable over an indication of age. Smooth skin, perky breasts, clear eyes, school girl uniforms...
That's kind of harsh!Rescue Mission said:MatureDJ, how many different women have you had sex with in the past year?
You seem to post ALOT of threads that are basically just articles from the internet, and without much comment or opinion from you, which makes it look like you are just trying to look cool in front of an internet forum at the tender age of 44.
Tell me I'm wrong.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I haven't been laid in a few years, as I have been stuck in the USA, with my failing business and resultant bankruptcy.Rescue Mission said:MatureDJ, how many different women have you had sex with in the past year?
You seem to post ALOT of threads that are basically just articles from the internet, and without much comment or opinion from you, which makes it look like you are just trying to look cool in front of an internet forum at the tender age of 44.
Tell me I'm wrong.
Maybe.CuriousGirl said:I think you've got the blonde thing confused with the youth thing here,
Ridley in The Red Queen said:That blond hair has been considered by Europeans more beautiful than brown or black hair has long been noted...Blond hair is a fairly common gene among Europeans. So when a mutation arose in the not-so-distant past, for blondness to last into adulthood but not beyond the early twenties, any men with a genetic preference for blond women would have found themselves marrying only young women, which - in a heavily clothed civilization - others might not have done. They would have left more descendants, and a preference for blond hair would have spread. This would in turn would have increased the spread of the trait itself because it would be an honest indicator of female reproductive value. Hence, gentlemen prefer blonds.
Although demand for aftermarket blondes may be decreasing due to the economy, economists are forcasting.jophil28 said:I also believe that there is a thriving demand in "after market " blondes. Easy installation- just locate one in an upmarket bar, buy her two tequilas and drive her home. She will install herself in your 'beamer' (and your apartment) at no extra cost.
Mr.Positive said:Before installing one, even temporarily, heed this warning...
There's a new scam going around that you install one, and when you get home, you've been hoodwinked. Remember, the carpet must match the drapes for a complete installation!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mr OP is perhaps referring to the oft seen discrepancy between the woman's hair color and a contrasting hue "down there".MatureDJ said:
I think women do it for the same reason a lot of guys on this forum try to be the bad boy or whatever. They get a confidence boost by trying to be something they're not. Perhaps they think they themselves are not likeable, so they change who they are and hope that will get them some attention from the opposite sex.The problem with this attraction that wealthy gents prefer blondes is not all blondes are created equal for many are dyed blonde and are really brunettes and why do they do it? Is it the youth factor or it's just that they just stand out more being blonde? Remember black women even dye their hair blonde...why?
I've noticed around here a lot of people have chosen to have nice cars, but once they make their car payment they can't afford to have a nice house to go with it. If you drive around the low rent district here in town, there are a lot of nice cars parked in front of shabby houses.Now what is considered wealthy? Someone posted someone driving a BMW if I drive the Z4 totally decked out http://autos.aol.com/cars-BMW-Z4-201...odel pg&flv=1 does this make me wealthy alone or if I have a nice home to go with it a ski boat etc., as well?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.