MatureDJ
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
taiyuu_otoko said:old news.
Men are genetically disposed to prefer youth. And in the old days of evolution, a naturall blond was proof of youth, as blond color tended to fade as one aged.
So men that had a natural inclination for blonds passes on more genes, yielding more men who preferred blonds. So even today blonds are preferred, despite all the possible chemical alterations.
Any indication of youth is preferable over an indication of age. Smooth skin, perky breasts, clear eyes, school girl uniforms...
That's kind of harsh!Rescue Mission said:MatureDJ, how many different women have you had sex with in the past year?
You seem to post ALOT of threads that are basically just articles from the internet, and without much comment or opinion from you, which makes it look like you are just trying to look cool in front of an internet forum at the tender age of 44.
Tell me I'm wrong.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I haven't been laid in a few years, as I have been stuck in the USA, with my failing business and resultant bankruptcy.Rescue Mission said:MatureDJ, how many different women have you had sex with in the past year?
You seem to post ALOT of threads that are basically just articles from the internet, and without much comment or opinion from you, which makes it look like you are just trying to look cool in front of an internet forum at the tender age of 44.
Tell me I'm wrong.
Maybe.CuriousGirl said:I think you've got the blonde thing confused with the youth thing here,
Ridley in The Red Queen said:That blond hair has been considered by Europeans more beautiful than brown or black hair has long been noted...Blond hair is a fairly common gene among Europeans. So when a mutation arose in the not-so-distant past, for blondness to last into adulthood but not beyond the early twenties, any men with a genetic preference for blond women would have found themselves marrying only young women, which - in a heavily clothed civilization - others might not have done. They would have left more descendants, and a preference for blond hair would have spread. This would in turn would have increased the spread of the trait itself because it would be an honest indicator of female reproductive value. Hence, gentlemen prefer blonds.
Although demand for aftermarket blondes may be decreasing due to the economy, economists are forcasting.jophil28 said:I also believe that there is a thriving demand in "after market " blondes. Easy installation- just locate one in an upmarket bar, buy her two tequilas and drive her home. She will install herself in your 'beamer' (and your apartment) at no extra cost.
Mr.Positive said:Before installing one, even temporarily, heed this warning...
There's a new scam going around that you install one, and when you get home, you've been hoodwinked. Remember, the carpet must match the drapes for a complete installation!
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Mr OP is perhaps referring to the oft seen discrepancy between the woman's hair color and a contrasting hue "down there".MatureDJ said:
I think women do it for the same reason a lot of guys on this forum try to be the bad boy or whatever. They get a confidence boost by trying to be something they're not. Perhaps they think they themselves are not likeable, so they change who they are and hope that will get them some attention from the opposite sex.The problem with this attraction that wealthy gents prefer blondes is not all blondes are created equal for many are dyed blonde and are really brunettes and why do they do it? Is it the youth factor or it's just that they just stand out more being blonde? Remember black women even dye their hair blonde...why?
I've noticed around here a lot of people have chosen to have nice cars, but once they make their car payment they can't afford to have a nice house to go with it. If you drive around the low rent district here in town, there are a lot of nice cars parked in front of shabby houses.Now what is considered wealthy? Someone posted someone driving a BMW if I drive the Z4 totally decked out http://autos.aol.com/cars-BMW-Z4-201...odel pg&flv=1 does this make me wealthy alone or if I have a nice home to go with it a ski boat etc., as well?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.