MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
taiyuu_otoko said:old news.
Men are genetically disposed to prefer youth. And in the old days of evolution, a naturall blond was proof of youth, as blond color tended to fade as one aged.
So men that had a natural inclination for blonds passes on more genes, yielding more men who preferred blonds. So even today blonds are preferred, despite all the possible chemical alterations.
Any indication of youth is preferable over an indication of age. Smooth skin, perky breasts, clear eyes, school girl uniforms...
That's kind of harsh!Rescue Mission said:MatureDJ, how many different women have you had sex with in the past year?
You seem to post ALOT of threads that are basically just articles from the internet, and without much comment or opinion from you, which makes it look like you are just trying to look cool in front of an internet forum at the tender age of 44.
Tell me I'm wrong.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I haven't been laid in a few years, as I have been stuck in the USA, with my failing business and resultant bankruptcy.Rescue Mission said:MatureDJ, how many different women have you had sex with in the past year?
You seem to post ALOT of threads that are basically just articles from the internet, and without much comment or opinion from you, which makes it look like you are just trying to look cool in front of an internet forum at the tender age of 44.
Tell me I'm wrong.
Maybe.CuriousGirl said:I think you've got the blonde thing confused with the youth thing here,
Ridley in The Red Queen said:That blond hair has been considered by Europeans more beautiful than brown or black hair has long been noted...Blond hair is a fairly common gene among Europeans. So when a mutation arose in the not-so-distant past, for blondness to last into adulthood but not beyond the early twenties, any men with a genetic preference for blond women would have found themselves marrying only young women, which - in a heavily clothed civilization - others might not have done. They would have left more descendants, and a preference for blond hair would have spread. This would in turn would have increased the spread of the trait itself because it would be an honest indicator of female reproductive value. Hence, gentlemen prefer blonds.
Although demand for aftermarket blondes may be decreasing due to the economy, economists are forcasting.jophil28 said:I also believe that there is a thriving demand in "after market " blondes. Easy installation- just locate one in an upmarket bar, buy her two tequilas and drive her home. She will install herself in your 'beamer' (and your apartment) at no extra cost.
Mr.Positive said:Before installing one, even temporarily, heed this warning...
There's a new scam going around that you install one, and when you get home, you've been hoodwinked. Remember, the carpet must match the drapes for a complete installation!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Mr OP is perhaps referring to the oft seen discrepancy between the woman's hair color and a contrasting hue "down there".MatureDJ said:
I think women do it for the same reason a lot of guys on this forum try to be the bad boy or whatever. They get a confidence boost by trying to be something they're not. Perhaps they think they themselves are not likeable, so they change who they are and hope that will get them some attention from the opposite sex.The problem with this attraction that wealthy gents prefer blondes is not all blondes are created equal for many are dyed blonde and are really brunettes and why do they do it? Is it the youth factor or it's just that they just stand out more being blonde? Remember black women even dye their hair blonde...why?
I've noticed around here a lot of people have chosen to have nice cars, but once they make their car payment they can't afford to have a nice house to go with it. If you drive around the low rent district here in town, there are a lot of nice cars parked in front of shabby houses.Now what is considered wealthy? Someone posted someone driving a BMW if I drive the Z4 totally decked out http://autos.aol.com/cars-BMW-Z4-201...odel pg&flv=1 does this make me wealthy alone or if I have a nice home to go with it a ski boat etc., as well?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.