"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Study: Testosterone makes men speak their mind more, makes them less worried about fitting in

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They rubbed testosterone gel on men's arms, and then those men stopped engaging in deceptive, supplicating, people-pleasing behavior. They spoke their minds confidently regardless of what others think.

Reminder: independence -- or "not giving a ****" -- is attractive on a biological level.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Now that's interesting...
 

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"We show that exogenous testosterone fully eliminated strategic, i.e., feigned, prosociality and thus decreased submission to audience expectations."

I've always associated a ZFG attitude with being confident in oneself - not one's testosterone levels. Does this mean the guys that worry about how hot their gf is and what other men think of them are low T? Or those who consistently want to know if another guy thinks this chick is hot?

Does correlation equate to causation?
 

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You dont appease to non sense when you feel strong enough to handle a conflict with others especially when you see them as retards.

The whole woke mob could be effectively defeated by raising the average man test back to decent levels like 30 yrs ago.
 
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Science continually affirms game concepts that have been around for decades.

Being an @sshole is preferable to being amenable

Game was always about pretending to be alpha

You have to become an alpha in your mind. It won't be easy.

Start by learning to fix things yourself. It doesn't matter what, just things around the house.

Start lifting weights. You will gain confidence, but also the ability to defend yourself.

Speak to women. Get out of your comfort zone. Learn to accept rejection.

If you do those things, you will gain enough confidence to fake it, and that's a good start
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The loud idiots are about the only casualty of low T im comfortable with
 

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Am I the only one who thought this was obvious enough to not require a scientific study to figure out? Interesting read nonetheless.
 

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Am I the only one who thought this was obvious enough to not require a scientific study to figure out? Interesting read nonetheless.
Our intuitions are important, but they are always clouded and uncertain and prone to wishful thinking
 

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"We show that exogenous testosterone fully eliminated strategic, i.e., feigned, prosociality and thus decreased submission to audience expectations."

I've always associated a ZFG attitude with being confident in oneself - not one's testosterone levels. Does this mean the guys that worry about how hot their gf is and what other men think of them are low T? Or those who consistently want to know if another guy thinks this chick is hot?

Does correlation equate to causation?
Testosterone is a key part of confidence levels in men.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've always associated a ZFG attitude with being confident in oneself - not one's testosterone levels
Decent T levels prevent a man from becoming sluggish. Thar, in turn, probably strengthens his self-assurance to such a degree that he's less prone to the anxiety that so often hinders us from speaking our minds
 

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I have been on TRT since 2018…

What I notice is things that bother other people do not phase me. I often feel like the guy in office space during his interview with the bobs…. I am motivated to improve the aspects of my life in my control. I literally have zero time for wasted efforts…stressing over news, politics… work place politics… gossip… I have no time.

I also make very quick decisions and have no issue making important decisions on my own and not bothering my bosses. Recently my direct boss told me he is retiring at the end of the year and he’s recommending I replace him…. Because “ I get it”…. I sort of laughed because I legit do not care…. And my peers are killing each other to try and get that promotion
 
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