"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Study: Testosterone makes men speak their mind more, makes them less worried about fitting in

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They rubbed testosterone gel on men's arms, and then those men stopped engaging in deceptive, supplicating, people-pleasing behavior. They spoke their minds confidently regardless of what others think.

Reminder: independence -- or "not giving a ****" -- is attractive on a biological level.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Now that's interesting...
 

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"We show that exogenous testosterone fully eliminated strategic, i.e., feigned, prosociality and thus decreased submission to audience expectations."

I've always associated a ZFG attitude with being confident in oneself - not one's testosterone levels. Does this mean the guys that worry about how hot their gf is and what other men think of them are low T? Or those who consistently want to know if another guy thinks this chick is hot?

Does correlation equate to causation?
 

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You dont appease to non sense when you feel strong enough to handle a conflict with others especially when you see them as retards.

The whole woke mob could be effectively defeated by raising the average man test back to decent levels like 30 yrs ago.
 
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Science continually affirms game concepts that have been around for decades.

Being an @sshole is preferable to being amenable

Game was always about pretending to be alpha

You have to become an alpha in your mind. It won't be easy.

Start by learning to fix things yourself. It doesn't matter what, just things around the house.

Start lifting weights. You will gain confidence, but also the ability to defend yourself.

Speak to women. Get out of your comfort zone. Learn to accept rejection.

If you do those things, you will gain enough confidence to fake it, and that's a good start
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The loud idiots are about the only casualty of low T im comfortable with
 

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Am I the only one who thought this was obvious enough to not require a scientific study to figure out? Interesting read nonetheless.
 

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Am I the only one who thought this was obvious enough to not require a scientific study to figure out? Interesting read nonetheless.
Our intuitions are important, but they are always clouded and uncertain and prone to wishful thinking
 

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"We show that exogenous testosterone fully eliminated strategic, i.e., feigned, prosociality and thus decreased submission to audience expectations."

I've always associated a ZFG attitude with being confident in oneself - not one's testosterone levels. Does this mean the guys that worry about how hot their gf is and what other men think of them are low T? Or those who consistently want to know if another guy thinks this chick is hot?

Does correlation equate to causation?
Testosterone is a key part of confidence levels in men.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've always associated a ZFG attitude with being confident in oneself - not one's testosterone levels
Decent T levels prevent a man from becoming sluggish. Thar, in turn, probably strengthens his self-assurance to such a degree that he's less prone to the anxiety that so often hinders us from speaking our minds
 

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I have been on TRT since 2018…

What I notice is things that bother other people do not phase me. I often feel like the guy in office space during his interview with the bobs…. I am motivated to improve the aspects of my life in my control. I literally have zero time for wasted efforts…stressing over news, politics… work place politics… gossip… I have no time.

I also make very quick decisions and have no issue making important decisions on my own and not bothering my bosses. Recently my direct boss told me he is retiring at the end of the year and he’s recommending I replace him…. Because “ I get it”…. I sort of laughed because I legit do not care…. And my peers are killing each other to try and get that promotion
 
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