"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Naturally, I like talking ****.. esp. to girls that I'm trying to get with. But I keep at a nice level where it doesnt get bad. Well, with my current conquest it got a bit out of hand. Now, that's all she's pre-occupied with, she always somehow brings up me talking **** to her - it's getting bad. I was thinking of possibly doing something nice for her, but then it's not really something I do.

What are you guys' thoughts?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tell her to stop talking sh1t about you talking sh1t.
If you do something nice to her now, she will have "broken you" and that's when you have to start worrying ;).

But... what kind of sh1t do you mean? I believe there is always a form of humor/superiority involved in flirting with women. The behavior you're describing means she's actually gotten the idea in her head that she could tell you what to do. I would like to ask you, how could she have gotten that idea in her head?
 
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I-am-someone said:
Tell her to stop talking sh1t about you talking sh1t.
If you do something nice to her now, she will have "broken you" and that's when you have to start worrying ;).

But... what kind of sh1t do you mean? I believe there is always a form of humor/superiority involved in flirting with women. The behavior you're describing means she's actually gotten the idea in her head that she could tell you what to do. I would like to ask you, how could she have gotten that idea in her head?
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well, it was all fun and games until 3 nights ago.. when I got crunked out of my brain and blacked out. Aparently, I told her to fvck her life a bunch of times and then explained to her how she shouldnt eat fast food otherwise she would become fat and unattractive. I remember non of this..
 
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lol, it sounds as though there is NO humor, and she's only seeing the bad stuff from your **** talking.

Giving her good emotions is better than giving her a gift that you hope brings out the emotions.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hahahahahahahahahhaha

So we made up and went to the bar last night, it got bad.. real quick... it ended in myself telling her to **** off and how i never wanted to see her again. Well, I wake up this morning and I realize something, my car is @ her house.. I'm kinda scuurreedd to get it.
 
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You have one-itis mang, go get your car and on your way home stop at starbucks and get a couple new phone numbers.... Easy does it?

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hmmmmmm... hahaha she IM'd me about an hour ago (I wasnt here) she said "hope you're feeling alright ;)" wtf?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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