"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Naturally, I like talking ****.. esp. to girls that I'm trying to get with. But I keep at a nice level where it doesnt get bad. Well, with my current conquest it got a bit out of hand. Now, that's all she's pre-occupied with, she always somehow brings up me talking **** to her - it's getting bad. I was thinking of possibly doing something nice for her, but then it's not really something I do.

What are you guys' thoughts?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tell her to stop talking sh1t about you talking sh1t.
If you do something nice to her now, she will have "broken you" and that's when you have to start worrying ;).

But... what kind of sh1t do you mean? I believe there is always a form of humor/superiority involved in flirting with women. The behavior you're describing means she's actually gotten the idea in her head that she could tell you what to do. I would like to ask you, how could she have gotten that idea in her head?
 
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I-am-someone said:
Tell her to stop talking sh1t about you talking sh1t.
If you do something nice to her now, she will have "broken you" and that's when you have to start worrying ;).

But... what kind of sh1t do you mean? I believe there is always a form of humor/superiority involved in flirting with women. The behavior you're describing means she's actually gotten the idea in her head that she could tell you what to do. I would like to ask you, how could she have gotten that idea in her head?
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well, it was all fun and games until 3 nights ago.. when I got crunked out of my brain and blacked out. Aparently, I told her to fvck her life a bunch of times and then explained to her how she shouldnt eat fast food otherwise she would become fat and unattractive. I remember non of this..
 
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lol, it sounds as though there is NO humor, and she's only seeing the bad stuff from your **** talking.

Giving her good emotions is better than giving her a gift that you hope brings out the emotions.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hahahahahahahahahhaha

So we made up and went to the bar last night, it got bad.. real quick... it ended in myself telling her to **** off and how i never wanted to see her again. Well, I wake up this morning and I realize something, my car is @ her house.. I'm kinda scuurreedd to get it.
 
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You have one-itis mang, go get your car and on your way home stop at starbucks and get a couple new phone numbers.... Easy does it?

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hmmmmmm... hahaha she IM'd me about an hour ago (I wasnt here) she said "hope you're feeling alright ;)" wtf?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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