"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Stuck in a predicament

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Naturally, I like talking ****.. esp. to girls that I'm trying to get with. But I keep at a nice level where it doesnt get bad. Well, with my current conquest it got a bit out of hand. Now, that's all she's pre-occupied with, she always somehow brings up me talking **** to her - it's getting bad. I was thinking of possibly doing something nice for her, but then it's not really something I do.

What are you guys' thoughts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tell her to stop talking sh1t about you talking sh1t.
If you do something nice to her now, she will have "broken you" and that's when you have to start worrying ;).

But... what kind of sh1t do you mean? I believe there is always a form of humor/superiority involved in flirting with women. The behavior you're describing means she's actually gotten the idea in her head that she could tell you what to do. I would like to ask you, how could she have gotten that idea in her head?
 
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I-am-someone said:
Tell her to stop talking sh1t about you talking sh1t.
If you do something nice to her now, she will have "broken you" and that's when you have to start worrying ;).

But... what kind of sh1t do you mean? I believe there is always a form of humor/superiority involved in flirting with women. The behavior you're describing means she's actually gotten the idea in her head that she could tell you what to do. I would like to ask you, how could she have gotten that idea in her head?
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well, it was all fun and games until 3 nights ago.. when I got crunked out of my brain and blacked out. Aparently, I told her to fvck her life a bunch of times and then explained to her how she shouldnt eat fast food otherwise she would become fat and unattractive. I remember non of this..
 
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lol, it sounds as though there is NO humor, and she's only seeing the bad stuff from your **** talking.

Giving her good emotions is better than giving her a gift that you hope brings out the emotions.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hahahahahahahahahhaha

So we made up and went to the bar last night, it got bad.. real quick... it ended in myself telling her to **** off and how i never wanted to see her again. Well, I wake up this morning and I realize something, my car is @ her house.. I'm kinda scuurreedd to get it.
 
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You have one-itis mang, go get your car and on your way home stop at starbucks and get a couple new phone numbers.... Easy does it?

Belair
 
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hmmmmmm... hahaha she IM'd me about an hour ago (I wasnt here) she said "hope you're feeling alright ;)" wtf?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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