"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stuck in a predicament

absolutealex

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Naturally, I like talking ****.. esp. to girls that I'm trying to get with. But I keep at a nice level where it doesnt get bad. Well, with my current conquest it got a bit out of hand. Now, that's all she's pre-occupied with, she always somehow brings up me talking **** to her - it's getting bad. I was thinking of possibly doing something nice for her, but then it's not really something I do.

What are you guys' thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I-am-someone

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Tell her to stop talking sh1t about you talking sh1t.
If you do something nice to her now, she will have "broken you" and that's when you have to start worrying ;).

But... what kind of sh1t do you mean? I believe there is always a form of humor/superiority involved in flirting with women. The behavior you're describing means she's actually gotten the idea in her head that she could tell you what to do. I would like to ask you, how could she have gotten that idea in her head?
 

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I-am-someone said:
Tell her to stop talking sh1t about you talking sh1t.
If you do something nice to her now, she will have "broken you" and that's when you have to start worrying ;).

But... what kind of sh1t do you mean? I believe there is always a form of humor/superiority involved in flirting with women. The behavior you're describing means she's actually gotten the idea in her head that she could tell you what to do. I would like to ask you, how could she have gotten that idea in her head?
well, it was all fun and games until 3 nights ago.. when I got crunked out of my brain and blacked out. Aparently, I told her to fvck her life a bunch of times and then explained to her how she shouldnt eat fast food otherwise she would become fat and unattractive. I remember non of this..
 

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lol, it sounds as though there is NO humor, and she's only seeing the bad stuff from your **** talking.

Giving her good emotions is better than giving her a gift that you hope brings out the emotions.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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absolutealex

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hahahahahahahahahhaha

So we made up and went to the bar last night, it got bad.. real quick... it ended in myself telling her to **** off and how i never wanted to see her again. Well, I wake up this morning and I realize something, my car is @ her house.. I'm kinda scuurreedd to get it.
 

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You have one-itis mang, go get your car and on your way home stop at starbucks and get a couple new phone numbers.... Easy does it?

Belair
 

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hmmmmmm... hahaha she IM'd me about an hour ago (I wasnt here) she said "hope you're feeling alright ;)" wtf?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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