"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Struggling to Maintain Long Term Relationships

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheProspect

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Tbh, I think it is more weak to let some girl put you in a relationship without your approval/discussing then a guy asking.
Well duh

A chick doesn’t just walk up and tell you you’re in a relationship with her as if you have no choice lol

A girl will express a desire for exclusivity, at which point you discuss what that would look like (if you’re interested) before either accepting or declining.
 

EyeBRollin

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Tbh, I think it is more weak to let some girl put you in a relationship without your approval/discussing then a guy asking.
What are you talking about man? She doesn’t just declare y’all together. She asks “where is this going?” State the terms then the guy accepts or says “let’s just keep it the way it is.”
 
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What are you talking about man? She doesn’t just declare y’all together. She asks “where is this going?” State the terms then the guy accepts or says “let’s just keep it the way it is.”
See TheProspect's post, he said it better than me lol
 

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I d maybe take a different way with screening. You asking what there most fun time was. If they talk about non stop parties and being out in the town you MAY be looking at a girl who s lost her stickiness. Obviously u don't next over one thing.

You do need to show you can communicate indirectly.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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