"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Struggling to Maintain Long Term Relationships

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheProspect

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Tbh, I think it is more weak to let some girl put you in a relationship without your approval/discussing then a guy asking.
Well duh

A chick doesn’t just walk up and tell you you’re in a relationship with her as if you have no choice lol

A girl will express a desire for exclusivity, at which point you discuss what that would look like (if you’re interested) before either accepting or declining.
 

EyeBRollin

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Tbh, I think it is more weak to let some girl put you in a relationship without your approval/discussing then a guy asking.
What are you talking about man? She doesn’t just declare y’all together. She asks “where is this going?” State the terms then the guy accepts or says “let’s just keep it the way it is.”
 
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What are you talking about man? She doesn’t just declare y’all together. She asks “where is this going?” State the terms then the guy accepts or says “let’s just keep it the way it is.”
See TheProspect's post, he said it better than me lol
 

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I d maybe take a different way with screening. You asking what there most fun time was. If they talk about non stop parties and being out in the town you MAY be looking at a girl who s lost her stickiness. Obviously u don't next over one thing.

You do need to show you can communicate indirectly.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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