Striking While the Iron is Hot

[Georgepithyou]

Is it always a good strategy, so for exampme you get a girls number from daygame. Should you go straight for the insta date there? I heard some people wait a few days to not look too desperate and eager.

There is a lot of conflicting messaging out there and I'm not sure what works best.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Timing is the most overlooked part of the game. If the girl isn't available then you don't have a foundation to stand on.

 

[Paper Crane]

i honestly don't think about this actively enough to give a real opinion... i kinda just wing it.. if im talking to her and she seems eager, we can meet the same night. its happened a few times, though granted, it wasn't from day gaming/pickup and more of a party type /get together setting.

but in other situations--- yeah u always gotta strike when the iron is hot.. why miss out on an opportunity? girls will forget about you the more time that goes on. unless u guys stay connected somehow, like social media and manage to keep her attention even if its a bit sporadic

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Is it always a good strategy, so for exampme you get a girls number from daygame. Should you go straight for the insta date there? I heard some people wait a few days to not look too desperate and eager.

There is a lot of conflicting messaging out there and I'm not sure what works best.

People who are not desperate won't look desperate. Instead of doing something to try to not appear a certain way, create a mindset that automatically makes you not appear that way.

Far more effective.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

In other words be outcome independent, and confident in what decision you make regarding the timing of a date?

Exactly. But you have to actually be that way, not just pretend to be that way. That comes off as fake too often.