“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Striking While the Iron is Hot

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Is it always a good strategy, so for exampme you get a girls number from daygame. Should you go straight for the insta date there? I heard some people wait a few days to not look too desperate and eager.

There is a lot of conflicting messaging out there and I'm not sure what works best.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Timing is the most overlooked part of the game. If the girl isn't available then you don't have a foundation to stand on.
 

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i honestly don't think about this actively enough to give a real opinion... i kinda just wing it.. if im talking to her and she seems eager, we can meet the same night. its happened a few times, though granted, it wasn't from day gaming/pickup and more of a party type /get together setting.

but in other situations--- yeah u always gotta strike when the iron is hot.. why miss out on an opportunity? girls will forget about you the more time that goes on. unless u guys stay connected somehow, like social media and manage to keep her attention even if its a bit sporadic
 

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Is it always a good strategy, so for exampme you get a girls number from daygame. Should you go straight for the insta date there? I heard some people wait a few days to not look too desperate and eager.

There is a lot of conflicting messaging out there and I'm not sure what works best.
People who are not desperate won't look desperate. Instead of doing something to try to not appear a certain way, create a mindset that automatically makes you not appear that way.

Far more effective.
 

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In other words be outcome independent, and confident in what decision you make regarding the timing of a date?
Exactly. But you have to actually be that way, not just pretend to be that way. That comes off as fake too often.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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