"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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strength versus weaknesses for men and women

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Listing the strengths and weaknesses for men and women:

Strengths men:

Has will power and drive

Has creativity

Has physical strength

ingratiates everything.

Weaknesses men:

susceptible to manipulation from women



Strengths Women:

is the chooser

has society in her "back pocket"

Weaknesses women:

less decisive

"matter over mind"

Does not know how to take responsibility and change herself.



Would anyone else like to add?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Random thought:

Confidence is about who you chose to be in relation to other people.
 

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Okay, it works like this:

core self--->

who you chose to be--->
(enters society)

1.) place yourself in rank in relation with others
2.) figure whether or not there is attraction with women of your status
3.) this all goes through via feedback loop to "who you chose to be"

---->

What you do if there is attraction (how to be a man about it).

Okay, so where does looks and confidence all fits in? Looks, and all other abilities are traits you take with you into the "going into society" stage. Confidence is what you have as a result of who you make yourself out to be. You need confidence to go after the women where there is attraction.

Confidence is not a value added trait by itself. You are confident if you have value. If you don't have value and act confidently, then you are arrogant. Confidence is also knowing that you can fail.
 
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