"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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strength versus weaknesses for men and women

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Listing the strengths and weaknesses for men and women:

Strengths men:

Has will power and drive

Has creativity

Has physical strength

ingratiates everything.

Weaknesses men:

susceptible to manipulation from women



Strengths Women:

is the chooser

has society in her "back pocket"

Weaknesses women:

less decisive

"matter over mind"

Does not know how to take responsibility and change herself.



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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Random thought:

Confidence is about who you chose to be in relation to other people.
 

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Okay, it works like this:

core self--->

who you chose to be--->
(enters society)

1.) place yourself in rank in relation with others
2.) figure whether or not there is attraction with women of your status
3.) this all goes through via feedback loop to "who you chose to be"

---->

What you do if there is attraction (how to be a man about it).

Okay, so where does looks and confidence all fits in? Looks, and all other abilities are traits you take with you into the "going into society" stage. Confidence is what you have as a result of who you make yourself out to be. You need confidence to go after the women where there is attraction.

Confidence is not a value added trait by itself. You are confident if you have value. If you don't have value and act confidently, then you are arrogant. Confidence is also knowing that you can fail.
 
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