"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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strength versus weaknesses for men and women

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Listing the strengths and weaknesses for men and women:

Strengths men:

Has will power and drive

Has creativity

Has physical strength

ingratiates everything.

Weaknesses men:

susceptible to manipulation from women



Strengths Women:

is the chooser

has society in her "back pocket"

Weaknesses women:

less decisive

"matter over mind"

Does not know how to take responsibility and change herself.



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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Random thought:

Confidence is about who you chose to be in relation to other people.
 

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Okay, it works like this:

core self--->

who you chose to be--->
(enters society)

1.) place yourself in rank in relation with others
2.) figure whether or not there is attraction with women of your status
3.) this all goes through via feedback loop to "who you chose to be"

---->

What you do if there is attraction (how to be a man about it).

Okay, so where does looks and confidence all fits in? Looks, and all other abilities are traits you take with you into the "going into society" stage. Confidence is what you have as a result of who you make yourself out to be. You need confidence to go after the women where there is attraction.

Confidence is not a value added trait by itself. You are confident if you have value. If you don't have value and act confidently, then you are arrogant. Confidence is also knowing that you can fail.
 
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