"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Street Approach 10's Head On

oldsalt

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I work in an small area of a city where I frequently encounter '10's on the street. It is the nature of the area and its layout, its many boutiques and its reputation - this all results in a very high density of extremely beautiful women in a small area. In the mornings on the way to work, afternoons at lunchtime and around 5pm it is a nice place to be.

In approaching, I achieve vastly different results depending on whether we encounter each other walking head-on versus whether I approach from an angle. I get good results when approaching at an angle. However, I have had little success at stopping 10's head-on.

This, in itself, is not a problem.

The 'problem' is I tend to see more 10's head on than I do in any other situation. I have been been hit with three 10's in a span of 10min as I'm walking down the sidewalk. This has happened several times. It is simply too much to ignore.

I want to know if there is any advice anyone has on stopping 10's head-on.

Alternatively maybe someone knows some way I can change the universe so it presents me with more 10's in my periphery instead of walking right at me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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habdragon08

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dude where is this place? its alost like that seinfeld episode wth the beautiful women all go to the exclusive club
 

ToughLove

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this happens in any downtown area's financial district too - all the hot looking intellect finance *****es walking around I also see a few 10's every few minutes, so this goes in any regular city
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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