"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Street Approach 10's Head On

oldsalt

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I work in an small area of a city where I frequently encounter '10's on the street. It is the nature of the area and its layout, its many boutiques and its reputation - this all results in a very high density of extremely beautiful women in a small area. In the mornings on the way to work, afternoons at lunchtime and around 5pm it is a nice place to be.

In approaching, I achieve vastly different results depending on whether we encounter each other walking head-on versus whether I approach from an angle. I get good results when approaching at an angle. However, I have had little success at stopping 10's head-on.

This, in itself, is not a problem.

The 'problem' is I tend to see more 10's head on than I do in any other situation. I have been been hit with three 10's in a span of 10min as I'm walking down the sidewalk. This has happened several times. It is simply too much to ignore.

I want to know if there is any advice anyone has on stopping 10's head-on.

Alternatively maybe someone knows some way I can change the universe so it presents me with more 10's in my periphery instead of walking right at me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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habdragon08

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dude where is this place? its alost like that seinfeld episode wth the beautiful women all go to the exclusive club
 

ToughLove

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this happens in any downtown area's financial district too - all the hot looking intellect finance *****es walking around I also see a few 10's every few minutes, so this goes in any regular city
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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