"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Street Approach 10's Head On

oldsalt

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I work in an small area of a city where I frequently encounter '10's on the street. It is the nature of the area and its layout, its many boutiques and its reputation - this all results in a very high density of extremely beautiful women in a small area. In the mornings on the way to work, afternoons at lunchtime and around 5pm it is a nice place to be.

In approaching, I achieve vastly different results depending on whether we encounter each other walking head-on versus whether I approach from an angle. I get good results when approaching at an angle. However, I have had little success at stopping 10's head-on.

This, in itself, is not a problem.

The 'problem' is I tend to see more 10's head on than I do in any other situation. I have been been hit with three 10's in a span of 10min as I'm walking down the sidewalk. This has happened several times. It is simply too much to ignore.

I want to know if there is any advice anyone has on stopping 10's head-on.

Alternatively maybe someone knows some way I can change the universe so it presents me with more 10's in my periphery instead of walking right at me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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habdragon08

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dude where is this place? its alost like that seinfeld episode wth the beautiful women all go to the exclusive club
 

ToughLove

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this happens in any downtown area's financial district too - all the hot looking intellect finance *****es walking around I also see a few 10's every few minutes, so this goes in any regular city
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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