"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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strange one-itis, need advice

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Acq

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I have a severe one-itis with a girl who is "the girl of my dreams".. we talked only a few times and I have no illusions BUT

she is doing her best to follow me around in my life.. its been extreme and she is really stalking me.

I know she is doing it to get attention and is not really interested in anything more.

what should I do ? I need her out of my life. However I know that a rejection will hurt me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would grab her in sexual way and maybe kiss her. This way, you might win the girl of your dreams, or she'll be so freaked out and she'll leave you alone. Win/win situation.
 
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Acq said:
However I know that a rejection will hurt me.
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Wrong.
Rejection will make you stronger.

If shes stalking you..doesn't that mean she is interested?
lol :D
 
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Ok, so I asked her out and she said yes... the second she agreed I realized I dont want to go out with her.. WTF ? aint life a ***** ?
 
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Dunno how good u are with girls. But if the girl is attractive (as i guess she is) and agreed to a date, always worth going along for the experience if nothing else right?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yes she is attractive but I guess I only wanted her because she was unreachable. She is a stranger to me, I dont know her. And there is something very unhealthy about her stalking me (hell she even applied for a job at our company numerous times using me as a reference). Something tells me to stay away.

the date would surely disappoint me and there would not be a second one.
 
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lol...that happened to me before... asked her out...realized I didnt really want the b1tch in the first place lol
 
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