"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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strange one-itis, need advice

Acq

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I have a severe one-itis with a girl who is "the girl of my dreams".. we talked only a few times and I have no illusions BUT

she is doing her best to follow me around in my life.. its been extreme and she is really stalking me.

I know she is doing it to get attention and is not really interested in anything more.

what should I do ? I need her out of my life. However I know that a rejection will hurt me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SickAgain

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I would grab her in sexual way and maybe kiss her. This way, you might win the girl of your dreams, or she'll be so freaked out and she'll leave you alone. Win/win situation.
 

Triple T

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Acq said:
However I know that a rejection will hurt me.
Wrong.
Rejection will make you stronger.

If shes stalking you..doesn't that mean she is interested?
lol :D
 

Acq

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Ok, so I asked her out and she said yes... the second she agreed I realized I dont want to go out with her.. WTF ? aint life a ***** ?
 

trv26

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Dunno how good u are with girls. But if the girl is attractive (as i guess she is) and agreed to a date, always worth going along for the experience if nothing else right?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Acq

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yes she is attractive but I guess I only wanted her because she was unreachable. She is a stranger to me, I dont know her. And there is something very unhealthy about her stalking me (hell she even applied for a job at our company numerous times using me as a reference). Something tells me to stay away.

the date would surely disappoint me and there would not be a second one.
 

Bonafide

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lol...that happened to me before... asked her out...realized I didnt really want the b1tch in the first place lol
 
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