"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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strange one-itis, need advice

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I have a severe one-itis with a girl who is "the girl of my dreams".. we talked only a few times and I have no illusions BUT

she is doing her best to follow me around in my life.. its been extreme and she is really stalking me.

I know she is doing it to get attention and is not really interested in anything more.

what should I do ? I need her out of my life. However I know that a rejection will hurt me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I would grab her in sexual way and maybe kiss her. This way, you might win the girl of your dreams, or she'll be so freaked out and she'll leave you alone. Win/win situation.
 
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Acq said:
However I know that a rejection will hurt me.
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Wrong.
Rejection will make you stronger.

If shes stalking you..doesn't that mean she is interested?
lol :D
 
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Ok, so I asked her out and she said yes... the second she agreed I realized I dont want to go out with her.. WTF ? aint life a ***** ?
 
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Dunno how good u are with girls. But if the girl is attractive (as i guess she is) and agreed to a date, always worth going along for the experience if nothing else right?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yes she is attractive but I guess I only wanted her because she was unreachable. She is a stranger to me, I dont know her. And there is something very unhealthy about her stalking me (hell she even applied for a job at our company numerous times using me as a reference). Something tells me to stay away.

the date would surely disappoint me and there would not be a second one.
 
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lol...that happened to me before... asked her out...realized I didnt really want the b1tch in the first place lol
 
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