"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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strange one-itis, need advice

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I have a severe one-itis with a girl who is "the girl of my dreams".. we talked only a few times and I have no illusions BUT

she is doing her best to follow me around in my life.. its been extreme and she is really stalking me.

I know she is doing it to get attention and is not really interested in anything more.

what should I do ? I need her out of my life. However I know that a rejection will hurt me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I would grab her in sexual way and maybe kiss her. This way, you might win the girl of your dreams, or she'll be so freaked out and she'll leave you alone. Win/win situation.
 
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Acq said:
However I know that a rejection will hurt me.
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Wrong.
Rejection will make you stronger.

If shes stalking you..doesn't that mean she is interested?
lol :D
 
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Ok, so I asked her out and she said yes... the second she agreed I realized I dont want to go out with her.. WTF ? aint life a ***** ?
 
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Dunno how good u are with girls. But if the girl is attractive (as i guess she is) and agreed to a date, always worth going along for the experience if nothing else right?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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yes she is attractive but I guess I only wanted her because she was unreachable. She is a stranger to me, I dont know her. And there is something very unhealthy about her stalking me (hell she even applied for a job at our company numerous times using me as a reference). Something tells me to stay away.

the date would surely disappoint me and there would not be a second one.
 
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lol...that happened to me before... asked her out...realized I didnt really want the b1tch in the first place lol
 
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