"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Stories of being rejected with: "WTF was I thinking?" in the future?

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Anyone with any stories of being rejected in the past only to later on in the future realize WTF was I thinking / seeing in that chick in the first place?

Most dudes take rejection as a blow to their self-esteem as if the chick is somehow "better" than them when in reality it's not always the case.

Anyone have any stories of being rejected only to see the chick later on or have found out more about her, or realized things later on you disregarded at the time you tried simply because she was "cool" and attractive?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Between_The_Lines said:
The aging process has a very natural, organic way of leading to that very conclusion
Not only that.

Chicks who party (drugs, alcohol) takes it's toll eventually.

Getting comfortable in other relationships gaining weight.

Being a known attention wh0re is a turn off to any man worth his salt that isn't a pandering, needy thirsty dude.

Or even attitudes they possess that we may overlook at the time.
 
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