"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stories of being rejected with: "WTF was I thinking?" in the future?

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Anyone with any stories of being rejected in the past only to later on in the future realize WTF was I thinking / seeing in that chick in the first place?

Most dudes take rejection as a blow to their self-esteem as if the chick is somehow "better" than them when in reality it's not always the case.

Anyone have any stories of being rejected only to see the chick later on or have found out more about her, or realized things later on you disregarded at the time you tried simply because she was "cool" and attractive?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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Between_The_Lines said:
The aging process has a very natural, organic way of leading to that very conclusion
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Not only that.

Chicks who party (drugs, alcohol) takes it's toll eventually.

Getting comfortable in other relationships gaining weight.

Being a known attention wh0re is a turn off to any man worth his salt that isn't a pandering, needy thirsty dude.

Or even attitudes they possess that we may overlook at the time.
 
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