"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stories of being rejected with: "WTF was I thinking?" in the future?

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Anyone with any stories of being rejected in the past only to later on in the future realize WTF was I thinking / seeing in that chick in the first place?

Most dudes take rejection as a blow to their self-esteem as if the chick is somehow "better" than them when in reality it's not always the case.

Anyone have any stories of being rejected only to see the chick later on or have found out more about her, or realized things later on you disregarded at the time you tried simply because she was "cool" and attractive?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Between_The_Lines said:
The aging process has a very natural, organic way of leading to that very conclusion
Not only that.

Chicks who party (drugs, alcohol) takes it's toll eventually.

Getting comfortable in other relationships gaining weight.

Being a known attention wh0re is a turn off to any man worth his salt that isn't a pandering, needy thirsty dude.

Or even attitudes they possess that we may overlook at the time.
 
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